nancydrew71
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I know it is proper to be skeptical of the HK.
However, I don't think it's strange for an employee of 20 years to be "so involved" in family business. My HK is actually more of a domestic assistant. I gave her that title - I made it up. (Though I am not saying I am the first to have ever used it...I have just never heard it!) I have known her for 2 years.
She cleans my house - and knows every single thing that is located in my house. She takes me shopping. We go to lunch. I have become friends with her. We do holiday things with her kids. Her kids are paid to pick up my dog's poop. I watch them sometimes. I get them all gifts for holidays and birthdays.
And I am far from wealthy! Wealthy people have more involved dealings...parties, charities, businesses, etc.
It doesn't ring any alarms at all for me that she knows so much about this family!!!
This is not just a regular HK. This is an agency they have been using for 20 years. They had this other HK who was killed so maybe it's whoever is available. Less personal.