legalmania
Verified Paralegal
Here you can see the e-mail exchange that they claim proves they were invited. This link should take you to a page where you can open up a PDF file.
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/34234551/ns/today-white_house/
I only skimmed this briefly so may be wrong, but all I see is the Pentagon woman trying to get them tickets but not promising anything, and she never gets them tickets and they show up anyway and get in, sending an e-mail later claiming that they were on the list.
ETA: Okay, there is one e-mail from the Pentagon woman supposedly saying that she is glad they had a great time. ??? I still don't see an e-mail from her that says "you have tickets and are cleared to go."
I've never been to a Whitehouse dinner but I have been to some important events and you get an invitation that says your name and what time, where, if it's formal and most people keeps those as souvenirs. This to me was not an invitation. It says maybe, she would try. It's like going to the airport and expecting to get on a plane when you don't have a boarding pass.