darcedarce
It's not easy to tell you goodbye
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Right now, with his testimony, he sat and watched his daughter give birth,and I find that very,very, intruding and inappropriate. A male figure showed up at the hospital that day, Jesse, and George said it did not go well. Its messed up, especially after all the mega denial, and the mega denial shows a pattern with Casey.
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How do we know ICA didn't want him there? I have had males deliver all of my three (Soon to be four) children and my father has seen my birth videos. (He was going to be in the room for the birth of my last child but it carried on for 29 hours so he went home to relieve our babysitter) My mother has been in the room for all of the births and I've had various friends in the room as well.
It's only intruding and inappropriate if the one giving birth feels that way, which unless I'm mistaken she has never said publicly?
I have also taken video for two of my friends of their births, full on crotch shots up close and at the time when the baby is coming out, the fact that it's a vagina the baby is coming out of is really the very last thing on your mind. Certainly it is nothing sexual or even taboo to a lot of people.
If somebody wishes privacy in their birth I think that is just as okay, birth is VERY private to a lot of people, I get that, but we don't know what ICA wanted to know if it was her wish, or not.