wendiesan
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You're right, from my experience as well, about signing documents regarding potential risks of surgery, but people sometimes hear what they want to hear or read what they want to read. We have no way of knowing, at least at this time, what the verbal information given the family was. It's possible that the language used in writing differed from that of the spoken consultation, and that the mother believed the risk to be less than what the physician believed s/he was indicating.
JMO, but I think the mother is overwhelmed with sorrow and guilt. I gather that she may have talked her daughter into having the surgery despite her daughter's fear that she would never wake up after the operation. The mother may believe that her daughter can hear her, and will know about her fight to bring her back safe and sound, just as she promised. I can understand that feeling, and I think it may take a long time for the mother to feel she can let her daughter go. It was my impression that Jahi's family felt that they were being rushed by the hospital to take this child off the machine that was keeping her alive, and there would, I think, be a perfectly natural suspicion about the motives of those doing the rushing.
It's hard to tell, but I guess in some way the mother is looking for the cause. Was it a medical mistake that resulted in her child's death, or was it something that could not be avoided? Could it have been an aneurism, or something like that? (Just a totally uneducated guess there.)
I don't know what the parents do for a living, but maybe someone else could find that information. I'm sure other posters will refute or agree with my theories, and may be in a better position to answer your questions.
I hope that the peace of this Christmas Season will have brought some small measure of comfort to Jahi's family, and that they will find the answers for which they are looking.
One more thing. Clips of the marches in support of Jahi's family were included in the Piers Morgan show footage. I think that "annoying" wouldn't begin to describe how those demonstrators would be perceived by families trying to maintain a sense of calm and protection to other children in the hospital.
You're right, from my experience as well, about signing documents regarding potential risks of surgery, but people sometimes hear what they want to hear or read what they want to read. We have no way of knowing, at least at this time, what the verbal information given the family was. It's possible that the language used in writing differed from that of the spoken consultation, and that the mother believed the risk to be less than what the physician believed s/he was indicating.
JMO, but I think the mother is overwhelmed with sorrow and guilt. I gather that she may have talked her daughter into having the surgery despite her daughter's fear that she would never wake up after the operation. The mother may believe that her daughter can hear her, and will know about her fight to bring her back safe and sound, just as she promised. I can understand that feeling, and I think it may take a long time for the mother to feel she can let her daughter go. It was my impression that Jahi's family felt that they were being rushed by the hospital to take this child off the machine that was keeping her alive, and there would, I think, be a perfectly natural suspicion about the motives of those doing the rushing.
It's hard to tell, but I guess in some way the mother is looking for the cause. Was it a medical mistake that resulted in her child's death, or was it something that could not be avoided? Could it have been an aneurism, or something like that? (Just a totally uneducated guess there.)
I don't know what the parents do for a living, but maybe someone else could find that information. I'm sure other posters will refute or agree with my theories, and may be in a better position to answer your questions.
I hope that the peace of this Christmas Season will have brought some small measure of comfort to Jahi's family, and that they will find the answers for which they are looking.
One more thing. Clips of the marches in support of Jahi's family were included in the Piers Morgan show footage. I think that "annoying" wouldn't begin to describe how those demonstrators would be perceived by families trying to maintain a sense of calm and protection to other children in the hospital.