BBM
IIRC the family said Jahi had been in the ICU about 30 minutes before they were allowed in to be with her. I would guess it's possible a nurse was with her during that time.
Do we know that she wasn't observed by a nurse in recovery and that there wasn't anyone with her on arrival from recovery? Didn't the family state that when Jahi was transferred to ICU it took some time before the family were allowed in her room?
I have had surgery many times (granted, I am not a child) and when I went from recovery to my room, they would take me up alone and ask my husband (who stayed with me 24/7) to let them settle me in first and then he could come in the room.
The nurses and staff need that settling in time so that they can have unobstructed contact with their patient with a family member trying to answer for the patient, distract them with questions, etc. The nurse and patient both need to have their entire attention upon each other at this time.
They may have also wanted time for Jahi to be quiet since her mom and gram were obviously not following post op protocol, plus they were likely disturbing others in recovery if they were laughing and talking.
I really feel that SOMETHING happened that the family should not have been doing, whether it was encouraging Jahi to talk and laugh, improper suctioning or sneaking her a treat. Mom and gram could have gone and gotten cola, Popsicle, ice cream or something while waiting to go to Jahi in ICU, then brought it up to her. If mom had a drink and let Jahi have some, could a cola or a drink with a straw cause a problem? ( I know people who have a tooth pulled are advised not to use a straw for a few days because of dry socket)
This would make sense because Jahi was asking about a popsicle and I figure that part of her pre-op instructions were to NOT eat anything after midnight so she may have been hungry or not used to going without food and treats.
We already know that her mom let her take go to the store by herself to get snickerdoodle/ice cream as a treat so I imagine that her mom had promised her all the popsicles, ice cream that Jahi wanted as part of reassuring her before surgery. (Most parents do tell their kids they can have all the popsicles, ice cream to help them feel more comfortable about surgery)