I am very sad for this family. Their loss is one that no one wants to go through, one that few of us can imagine. Their pain is real and I have all the compassion in the world for their loss. However, they have invited public scrutiny by calling for donations - the support of the public - and by inviting the justice system into their lives. They have asked for the government to intervene, and that is something that we all have an interest in. As a California resident, I am particularly interested in this case and the possible ramifications if enough public support is gathered based on misinformation that is being perpetuated by an attorney. And for me personally, as a member of the California Bar, I have an interest in what other professionals do. In fact, we have a duty to report others for misconduct.
We shouldn't be hateful, and I know there are lots of examples of that out there. But honestly, read any news story - there are hateful responses to anything, no matter how innocuous. Such is the nature of internet anonymity. But I just think we also need to remember here that misinformation is being spread and they are asking the public to do something - to support an unheard of precedent in law, to make decisions that scare many of us in terms of the future of medico-legal issues, and to donate money to their cause. There are many who have encountered these situations with grace and acceptance and have quietly mourned their loss, but this family decided to make it a public battle, and in doing so have also invited scorn upon CHO, whose actions cannot yet be judged. Standing up for a hospital aimed at doing children's work and who is not yet legally responsible is, IMO, an important task.
Everyone is invited to feel differently, this is MOO, my :twocents: