reb said:
this is exactly what irritates the bejeezus out of me. nowadays everyone uses 'OCD', 'personality disorder', 'ADD', 'bipolar', etc.. as an excuse for ALL kinds of irresponsible, bitchy, bratty, immature, and downright psycho behavior. it gives the disorders, and people who TRULY have these disorders (if you believe they ARE real- which is always a subject of debate), a bad name.. and it is a lame attempt to excuse ones' self from idiotic behavior.
and many psychiatrists are just as guilty for brainwashing people into thinking they have these disorders, instead of telling them-- just GROW UP already and quit acting like a jerk! why? because it's within the best interest of their wallets, since so many are in bed with the pharm companies. and now, lawyers are in on it too.. hhmm... i wonder if lawyers are also getting paid off to promote the drugs?
so meanwhile, everyone & their kid is convinced they have some kind of biological chemical disorder (yeah, of course you do-- it's called life!) that causes them to behave or feel a certain way... and they don't have the power to take a look at it and correct the situation- they just have to pop a pill. but then they keep acting crazy, and say "oh i can't help it i'm bipolar." (well, DUH- obviously your meds ain't workin' then, are they?!)
but of course i said this in so many words before, and some folks got all offended-- go figure. why?, i still don't know!
okok-
Listen, I agree with you 100% about more and more people using mental illness as an excuse for bad behavior but I disagree with what you said about
everyone that is mentally ill is doing this!
I have Bipolar disorder, OCD and panic/anxiety disorder as well as Tourettes syndrome and I am usually the *first* person here at WS to about these people using mental illness as an excuse for acting out, killing others, etc. The stigma still attached to mental illness is *because* of just these types of people!
However, reb, as far as "life" being the only thing that is wrong with me and implying that I just "pop a pill" rather than finding power from within to change my
medical condition, I have to say that it seems to me that you have no clue what you are talking about! I have worked harder than
any person I know- to change and grow and admit some pretty things about myself and my past behavior and make sure I never go there again!
I have done
plenty to change my circumstances but without the "pills" I could not have found the power within myself! The pills enabled me to see for the first time that my getting well and staying well depends on me and only me! The pills opened my eyes, let me see inside of myself and then *I* changed. I work my *advertiser censored* off
every day of my life to
stay well and will continue to do so until the day I die!
I
have Bipolar disorder but Bipolar disorder does not define
who I am! I do not let it control me OR my actions or
reactions. If I took Insulin for Diabetes but still ate sugar, the medicine would really do me no good, would it? But on the other hand, if I ate no sugar but didn't take the Insulin, I'd still remain ill! In order to keep your health under your control, you MUST do both things, take your medicine
and change how you live!
No one has brainwashed me into thinking
anything about myself, I am not a jerk and I
am grown up. I am a loving, giving, caring, strong, honest, self fulfilled woman. I am in control of my own life, my own thoughts, my own mind, my own behavior and I face the consequences to
every one of my actions .. I have never hurt any
one or any
thing and never will! I am a good mother, wife, daughter, sister and friend.
Although I obviously couldn't get rid of the child I had already given birth to before being diagnosed with Bipolar disorder, When I
was diagnosed I had my tubes tied because any biological child of mine has a
60% chance of ending up with Bipolar as well. That's the last thing I would want to do to my own child!
Most of us that have a legit mental illness are quite pissed off about the new fad of blaming a mental illness for the bad choices one makes in ones life... it's because of people like
them that people like
you doubt mental illness is real!