You know Sherri, maybe we should all get together and write a book for parents about how to tell their kids that their really is a boogie man. I have a daughter who will turn 18 next week.
I also have one who just turned 7. Big Sister and Big Surprise!!! :bang: :waitasec: :doh: :dance: I have explained to both of them the reasons they have to "hold my hand" and "stay close" when we are in the mall, and in any public places. I hate to admit it, but I have explained to them how to effectively stab someone. I learned it from Soldier of Fortune magazine (long story which involves someone that wanted to hurt the neighborhood pets). Anyway, I have also told them to use their teeth and go for the jugular. It is my personal self-protection plan. I am very adept with my 9mm. I even qualified for combat pistol target shooting (IPSIC). The problem is........I don't always have the 9mm with me. I ask large men this question....."Are you afraid of an 80 pound woman?" Of course they snicker and say "no". I then ask...."Are you afraid of an 80 pound pit bull?" They look horrified. What is the difference?? Teeth. I have instructed my daughters to bite the side of the neck where the jugular vein is located. They should bite deep, spit it out, and go back for seconds. I hope I haven't offended anyone, but it is an ugly world out there, and we need to be prepared.....as do our daughters. If I had a son, I would teach him the same thing. I also teach my children to be kind and compassionate. Unless someone threatens you personally, you should always be looking for someone who needs your assistance. The only counter balance to the boogie men and women in this world is the kindness of others. THAT is what makes places like WebSleuths so wonderful. People who are regulars here care deeply. That level of concern is a dagger in the heart of evil in this world.