I respect your opinion, and I believe that she hid assets out of a fear that she would not be able to provide for herself (initially) once her divorce was final. The hidden sum would help her establish her own residence separate and apart from Dan. She was not making a lot of money at the time, I don't believe. I don't know the source of the alleged $50,000 in undisclosed assets. Did she secrete money while still married to Dan, knowing that she would be leaving him? I think so. I know she kept the ring that belonged to the Markel side of the family, and that was flat out wrong.
As far as the devious plots to get under Dan's skin, that DA cooked up and presented to WA, those were things that she would have had to act on herself. She wasn't willing to do that. She also wouldn't go along with the $1M proposed bribery to Dan so that he'd give his consent to her relocating with the kids to South Florida. I believe that DA and CA, went "over Wendi's head" with the murder-for-hire scheme without telling her. I think HA was aware.
We may never know what was what, exactly.