amicuscurie
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Again, these two seem terribly mismatched to me. Seems to me like the fact that you keep kosher would be something you’d say pretty early on in dating. It’s a big deal, and could be a dealbreaker for some. You would want to get that out there and make sure you were on the same page. If your spouse gradually became more observant as the marriage went on, and it wasn’t something you had agreed to, I think that would merit a serious discussion.I didn't ever meet Dan or Wendi, but I did have some friends in common with Dan. One of those friends told me about "this awful girl named Wendi" that she met at a potluck dinner.
When Dan and Wendi got to the party, Wendi carried her dish into the kitchen. My friends said it looked delicious, and someone asked Wendi if it was kosher. She said no, it wasn't, but don't tell Dan, that she always lied to him about food being kosher, and that she thought it was hilarious that he'd eat it.
Looks like she started that lie at the wedding.