I do know that performance (from my reading) are easier to flip and that cruisers are much safer, but I am reading and seeing instances of catamarans flipping and the majority they say are "pilot error".
I would like to note that I'm not a boater, so this is all I'm reading. I defer to your expertise but I am seeing it happens although admittedly not often for cruisers.
Catching up... someone else may have brought this up... but if he *intentionally* piloted it in such a way as to *make* it flip, in the middle of the night in the middle of the ocean, he was risking a death sentence himself. He was lucky that (1) he was actually able to get to a lifeboat and deploy it, (2) his lifeboat stayed afloat and didn't get swamped by a wave, (3) his emergency messages got through, (4) that the coast guard was able to find him in the middle of the ocean, and (5) that he was rescued quickly and it didn't take two weeks to find him. Thinking of all the very real risks and many things that could go wrong...
So... high&mighty has me convinced... It was most likely an accident.
Which doesn't mean they weren't having marital problems, and if they were arguing constantly over how and where to raise the baby... well, his feelings toward her may not have been as positive as they once were which could certainly effect his level of grief and how he expressed it. And her family's attitude towards and treatment of him may have negatively influenced his feelings and behavior. Who knows, maybe they had wanted her to stay with the ex husband, or maybe they were very insular as a family and didn't get along with any in-laws. All sorts of personal dynamics go on in families, just because they didn't like him it doesn't necessarily mean there's a problem with him. Certainly, publicly accusing him of murder isn't going to give him warm fuzzies and make him want to facilitate a relationship between them and his daughter.
[This actually reminds me of another case, where a man disappeared, his family in another state very vocally voiced their suspicions of his wife all over SM, repeatedly slammed her while saying the first wife was so wonderful, there were all sorts of signs that it was likely a suicide which they completely rejected as a possibility while outright accusing the wife of murder... eventually his body was found and it was a suicide. And then they complained that the wife wasn't sending her son to visit them. 🤔]
And of course he took the baby with him, he's her father.
On another note, and I'm sure OT... I have heard many stories about (and seen up live and personal on three different occasions) relatives go into the home of a relative who was either newly deceased, sent to a nursing home, and in one case in the hospital and not expected to survive, and ... well, let's say remove "mementos" that perhaps their legal right to was a bit... hazy. The person whose mother was hospitalized was quite surprised when she unexpectedly survived, and she was publicly talking about how she had to get everything back in the house before her mother was released. In other cases siblings were fighting about what the other siblings took.
Not saying that anything like that was what happened here... I'm sure the family just figured that with the accident the baby would be with them longer than planned and they went to pick up more baby stuff... but, ya' know... just sayin'...
MOO, etc.
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