After reading some of the posts here, I just had a flashback memory. Seventeen years ago,I was in a department store with my 3 year old daughter. I was standing in line to pay for a coat, about 5 people back from the register. A white man had picked up a coat, that was not on sale, that someone had put back on a 50% off rack. He started to bully the young black female clerk, yelling at her. She called her young white female manager over for assistance and this man was bullying her as well, yelling in a very rude manner.
Not one person in that line said a word. Not one. Except for me. I had watched it go on long enough, and in my ER tone of voice, I told the man to stop. I told him if the coat wasn't on sale it wasn't on sale. He looked at me and then shut his mouth and walked off after throwing the coat down. I was shaking with anger that someone could be so rude.
It was later pointed out to me that I should have said nothing, because what if the man had a gun and I was shot, possibly also having my daughter in the line of fire. I was stunned. That thought had never ever crossed my mind. What I saw was an injustice and others around me afraid to speak up for the clerks to this bully. I would never put my child in harm's way.
This was 17 years ago. I don't know whether I was right or wrong to speak up. In my heart, I was right as it ended the bullying tirade and the clerks looked at me and said thank you. What is sad is that I don't know if it would be prudent to do the same thing today...... JMV