I have nothing but sympathy for this poor young girl. Her life has been turned upside down.
But I can't agree that the kidnapper gave her a better life. Any person who would go to such lengths to steal a 5 hrs old infant from its mother must not be a truly kind and loving person, even to the child they stole. It takes a twisted, selfish, manipulative, sociopathic person to do such a thing.
Having a nice home, clothes and material things alone dont make a good life or upbringing. This poor girl was raised by a monster, and damage will last a lifetime.