"No, no, no, anything could happen, I didn't know her Dad, I didn't know her brother, I didn't know anybody there, I don't know what could happen to you, just afraid of her getting assaulted".
Good point this could definitely be an unfortunate isolation tactic to prevent Maddie from confiding in other adults or friends or gaining the attention of those who would alert LE, CPS, the school or their most trusted social services program.
I wonder too if this could be a cultural thing too or a rule JS herself had to follow as a kid. I have a lot of friends and cousins, particularly those on my dad’s side from the West Indies, who were not allowed to go to sleepovers because their parents also had this rule.
I think too growing up a lot of parents stressed stranger danger to their kids not knowing that it is actually the people at home or who have the most access to your room or home that pose the biggest threat to kids. I think today that information is more commonly discussed now with parents and guardians at schools, hospitals and PTAs.
So if that is true…… yet they are receiving money from SS for rent?
IIRC JS may have let SE may live at the apartment for free if he agreed to babysit Maddie after school and while JS was still at work. I’m not sure about how JS’ parents felt about but I do recall multiple interviews emphasizing her parents did not like him at all and were glad when he moved out. A friend of JS said once on a podcast that JS and her mom did not get along either which may have led to her using SS instead for childcare unfortunately.
He sounds somewhat like a free loader who likes to take advantage of people. For example, Maddie said to a friend once she didn’t like having him live with them anymore and that he ate all their food.
He also complained about living with his parents because they were old and had dogs but he lived with them for free and while unemployed. He also would borrow his dad’s car.
"and so despite having moved on with other people you were still having Stephan come up and visit and there was plans to cohabitate with him again potentially? A: possibly yes'
sooooooooo, seems like she was back out on the dating scene but not letting go of SS.
I think SS has a history of staying at JS even when they broken up according to one of his court docs discussing an ex-partner’s testimony. Supposedly he would watch over Maddie during this time but likely he was abusing her instead and cleaning and hiding the evidence before her mother got home. Maddie deserves justice and every child deserves to be safe from such disgusting predatory behaviors.
A: no there have been, she's had other periods that have been missed or like super late
To be fair it is not that uncommon teenagers and girls who recently started their period, like those between 11-12 years old, may miss a period because their hormones and cycles are still regulating themselves and have not yet adjusted to the regular every 28-31 days that we are taught to expect.
Would constipation appointments involve an external physical exam, though? I don't know.
Yes, in medical school and on the floor medical providers could do abdominal and anal exams and do swabs and stool tests via the use of gloves depending on the symptoms, like pain level, how often it occurs, if blood is present, fever, vomiting and such.
Regular abdominal pain, particularly lower abdominal pain, even if associated with constipation or constipation associated with one’s menstrual cycle, may also cause the doctors to do pelvic exams and vaginal swabs with parents or, in some states, adolescent patients permission.
Some of these physical exam tests may not be enough though and require the use of more invasive or technical procedures, like ultrasounds, laparoscopy or colonoscopy.
I recall from some of my psych reading that sadly constipation is can be a common complaint or symptom among minors, especially children, who are suffering from chronic sexually abuse. I hope that perhaps Maddie’s medical records or doctors can be of further help in advocating for justice for her through their testimonies and notes so that law officials and LE can get a full picture of Maddie’s experience while humanizing and making her voice stronger as her story gets shared and told in the court of law.