AppleTreeGreen
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That’s a good point. I think I misinterpreted what JS meant.responding respectfully to: "To be fair it is not that uncommon teenagers and girls who recently started their period, like those between 11-12 years old, may miss a period because their hormones and cycles are still regulating themselves and have not yet adjusted to the regular every 28-31 days that we are taught to expect."
absolutely agree with you about regulation of monthlies at that age.
however, the contradiction is: JS answers she did not notice anything about Madeline menstruating via use of feminine products (or not using) 'until AFTER everything happened' (missing/death). she should have ended her response there but she chose to punctuate her response with an explanation designed for a 'yes' answer. how can she say she thought this was one of those situations again (which is why she wouldnt be concerned or bring it up with Madeline) when she didnt realize it until after she is missing/deceased?
IMO, that is a big reveal to me that she felt the need to throw in the irregularity of Madeline as to what would NOT prompt her to be concerned OR discuss with Madeline. IMO, she knew, spoke with Madeline and it relates to her death.
I thought she indicated she noticed that Maddie’s period was late since it was supposed to start at the beginning of the month of February but because Maddie’s period is sometimes late or skips she didn’t worry too much about it. However, unfortunately she lost track of time and unfortunately by the time she realizes that Maddie still never got her period, or at least not by February 26th, her daughter had been been declared missing and then murdered. In other words I thought she was implying that she didn’t even notice Maddie’s period skipped the month until a few weeks after her Maddie’s life was cruelly taken from her.
It is pretty mind-blowing and discouraging to think that in the past 5 years she was likely not getting the proper medical and mental health care services that she needed to secure her health and safety and screen and prevent the development of short and long-term harmful effects as a result of rape, sexual assault and the invasion of one’s sense of home, privacy and willpower over their own bodies.
However, one thing I do find interesting is that Maddie’s best friend said that their periods always synced up to the point she could verify for a fact that Maddie got her period in January. That plus the constipation, possible melena or anal bleeding and impaction she suffered in the wake of an aggressive and forceful predator who has imposed anal sex on both her and another women does make me wonder if Maddie’s symptoms, including the amenorrhea, could have unfortunately been caused by an sexual-health based illness or disorder, such as PID, anal fissures, or HPV, that can be linked to SS’ chronic sexual assault?
I do sincerely hope that Maddie’s story is recognized, her loved ones can get justice and that advocating for her and what she has gone through can improve screening at school, doctor offices and in sports so that we can better screen and reach other minors who, like Maddie, needed someone to listen or notice them too and have the power or authority to bypass their parents or guardians when they are part of the problem or the reason why their stuck in unsafe or harmful situations/conditions too.