Call me slow but I'm still learning how to navigate this site, reply/respond to comments, read messages in order....and with this case it seems that there are tidbits coming in here and there, so I'm just trying to keep up and not end up down rabbit holes of speculation. I read stuff here, watch stuff on YouTube....
It's like trying to fit a square peg in a round hole. People inserting their own narratives of what MIGHT have happened only add to the confusion. I admit that I too keep trying to piece it together, based on info that is reported, but I still just don't know the actual facts yet.
I THINK that what is plausible, is that MAYBE at the end of the birthday party at grandma's house, Maddie didn't want to go home because Stephan would have been the one to take her home since he was at the party too, and mom was working, so she didn't want to be with him at the condo. Maybe she said she wanted to spend the night with grandma but didn't say why, so the family let her. If so, then Stephan left the party without her. Probably pissed.
I'd then assume that he went back to the condo for the night (assuming he was staying there since he had his own room and it's reported that he lived there). So then maybe Jenn would unwittingly have asked him that night if he'd pick her up from grandma's in the morning and take her to school since she (Jenn) was working. He picked her up early from grandma's house, was possibly upset with her that she didn't want to come home with him the night before, after the party. Something happened in that early morning time frame (not sure how/what/when), and then he had to go to the condo to get her backpack and laptop to make it look like she went to school (she was already unalive by then). POSSIBLY, Jenn was home and already asleep? and she heard him and assumed it was them heading off to take Maddie to school.
After he picked up Maddie early that morning from grandma's, he went to the condo, got the backpack and laptop, and he then threw them in the dumpster on his way out to pretend he was taking Maddie to school. (I THINK he maybe believed the items wouldn't be found because maybe it was trash day). Maddie was seen in the car early in the morning, though it's reported she was already passed away at that point...he just needed to run in for those items incase Jenn woke up because she'd be wondering why those items were still there if Maddie was at school.
It's also POSSIBLE that when Jenn got home in the morning before Stephan left to go get Maddie from grandma's, maybe he gave her something to knock her out because he already had something in mind to do. That could potentially explain Jenn's inconsistencies....she was confused, time was unclear, and her sense of guilt...she seemed looped out in one of her interviews and her pupils were dilated. I personally believe he had often 'drugged' her to keep her docile.
The details about what was going on between early morning and when he took Maddie's body to the location she was found are still unclear. If Jenn was sleeping during the day, and was assuming he had taken her to school and not worried yet, gave him some time to figure out what to do but as the day was winding down and Jenn would be up soon....MAYBE he had to hurry up and dispose of Maddie's body before Jenn would know anything.
As for the recent reports of items found in his room and Jenn should have known...that is a bit absurd. If he had his own room and they were no longer a couple, I doubt she'd be rummaging through his room. MAYBE he had a lock on his door. MAYBE he just kept the door shut and she respected his privacy. Like a roommate. Her father also had a room on that level. She MAYBE wouldn't have suspected anything since her father was so nearby. I don't yet know the truth about SS clothing items found in Maddie's room.
MAYBE Jenn felt safe and didn't think anything nefarious was happening because her dad lived there too. Maybe she didn't notice red flags because she worked nights, slept days, was under the influence of prescription meds, and MAYBE Stephan was giving her his Lunesta to knock her out.
Anyway, I'm just guessing and obviously don't know the facts yet. I'm still not going to pass judgement on Jenn, unless or until different info comes to light. I know she is in deep, profound, unimaginable grief and pain right now and I'd rather believe she was also a victim and support her, than blame and shame her when she's suffering immensely. If I have to eat my words later, so be it. I'd rather do that than accuse her of horrific things now and have to apologize later, after the fact when even more damage is done. Everyone seems to be hating on her without proof of anything, just pure speculations and rumors. That too can be incredibly, awfully painful. I prefer to extend compassion first and foremost, I can always judge later when I know more as fact. None of us know her side fully yet and guessing at it is totally unfair and cruel.