Doesn't the military have a way to make sure child support is paid? I would think that if there were a child support order, the military would make sure it was honored. Something's not right. :waitasec:
My mind changes daily There have been a lot of posts that have gone against theories or things I think but I have seen the light on some of them. That is why I love posting here, challenged to think 
ok..well when i first read this case my initial knee-jerk, no rationality-to-it, gut feeling was something is not ok with the dynamics with the kids - i think that SP being there is a big red flag (and all this is JMO) I think you were just ahead of the times a bit because it seems like the court of public opinion is starting to turn against DT. I found myself a bit irritated when people judged her dress for the memorial or the fact that she had a marijuana icon on her FB or myspace or pics that may not have been in the best taste but i just get the vibe that she may have had a very troubled kid (again JMO).. I feel very badly for DT - i think her initial comments about raising somer to come home directly comes from a huge feeling of guilt. I am thinking that a lot of her actions may be coming from that place. I have since the beginning noticed the subtle contradictions in her body language and hope that it comes from being suddenly in a very high profile situation. People do really odd, inexplainable things sometimes in those circumstances. I really really hope the scenario you put out with the kids is totally wrong but i will admit that it was also my first first reaction. and.... don't know why but i get an uneasy feeling about somer's dad (not that i think has has ANYTHING to do with this awful mess but i think he may be seizing a bit of an opportunity for a little financial explotation)
IF it's filed for, there can be a 'separate maintenance' order. Now the question is, did she file for one? If she dislikes him so intently, it may be that she didn't want anything to do with him, including his money.
