golfmom
Former Member
At this link ya'll can find an article on how a claim for life insurance benefits is investigated.
http://www.pimall.com/nais/n.dcrdt.html
http://www.pimall.com/nais/n.dcrdt.html
SouthEastSleuth said:Another interesting thing to consider - if there was a policy on Janet, was there also one on Raven as well? Boy, I would sure hope so, for his sake I guess - because if not, then that doesn't look too good either I wouldn't think!
Is there a way to find out if there was an insurance policy on Janet, how much, and if Raven has tried to collect?golfmom said:Either being the operative word considering the long list of things that aren't looking so good for him currently.
It never really occured to me that he wouldn't insure himself. I mean he was the primary bread winner in the family. I would think that Janet being pregnant might trigger them to purchase some extra insurance, but they didn't really reconcile until she was six months along ... hmmmm ... more to ponder.
Moxie said:I think she had been hired to fill a temporary position first and then was hired on full-time later. So she wasn't really there long enough for this to be feasible. Good thought though.
Could you even type that with a straight face?NCBanker said:I really didn't know what to entitle this thread. I tried to come up with something clever. Plus, I really don't think his family is doing this for Raven. I honestly and sincerely think their concern is for Kaiden; hence, the neutral title.
You are so right Jenifred! I personally know of story after story of one spouse dying unexpectedly and NONE of the family begged for money. The other spouse (with help from family) bucked up and did what she/he had to do. I don't think it even occured to them to ask strangers for money. Maybe it's a mormon thing?Jenifred said:A few more things have been bothering me too. If a cousin from AZ really did set up the memorial fund in UT, what business is it of theirs? I know that cousins are can be pretty close, but this is definately not in their job description (nor is it in the job description of a mother-in-law, as I've said before too). And then to enlist children's help to solicit funds for a cause with no purpose? At best it's odd and but more so it's morally defunct. Collecting money for a memorial fund and using poor Kaiden as a pawn to elicit more emotion so more money can be brought in? HELLO!?! I've said it a million times, and I will say it again--RAVEN SHOULD BE ABLE TO PROVIDE FOR HIMSELF AND HIS SON!!! And then for someone to write an article about this whole thing is odd to me too. I know that the family members probably had the best of intentions, but keep it in the family--don't get people a few thousand miles away from the murder financially involved.
I don't think it is. I know this one mormon family and the Dad died, leaving Mom with four small children. Mom didn't work so they lost the bread winner of the family. It was so sad. The Mom went to work, school and has supported herself and the kids with NO TRUST FUND for more than 5 years now. Life happens and even though it is not what you expected or wanted, you just do what you need to do. Imo, you can accept help, but not beg for money from strangers, particularly when you have been charged with embezzlement.ewwwinteresting said:You are so right Jenifred! I personally know of story after story of one spouse dying unexpectedly and NONE of the family begged for money. The other spouse (with help from family) bucked up and did what she/he had to do. I don't think it even occured to them to ask strangers for money. Maybe it's a mormon thing?
I just noticed that this was a magazine for mormon people in San Diego. Didn't Raven move from San Diego when he was 14 (more than 11 years ago)? So, his grandmother is writing an article in San Diego to donate to a fund in Utah and about how cousins begged for money in Arizona for a woman that was murdered in North Carolina? Does this make sense to anybody else? It feels like people here are being opportunist.ewwwinteresting said:Could you even type that with a straight face?
IF Raven's family was sincerly and honestly concerned for Kaiden, then the cousin would have set up a fund for Kaiden in Arizona that Raven couldn't touch. Why not set up a fund in trust for Kaiden? A fund that nobody can touch except Kaiden when he's 18? Why not set up a fund under the minor's act that can only be used for Kaiden's education, etc. This fund was set up to benefit nobody but Raven!
They know Raven is a liar, steals and hasn't been cleared by LE in the murder. They failed to inform potential donars of these facts. If the family, knowing these facts, still want to support Raven, then fine. But for them to solicit funds from strangers and friends all over the country to donate to a fund supposedly for Kaiden, without telling them the whole story, is ludicrous, naive and imo, dishonest!
It's not a Mormon thing. Personally I think Raven and maybe other members of his family have no problem asking for and accepting money from other people, even strangers. It's not something I could ever do, but I know plenty of people who are takers and it wouldn't bother them a bit.ewwwinteresting said:You are so right Jenifred! I personally know of story after story of one spouse dying unexpectedly and NONE of the family begged for money. The other spouse (with help from family) bucked up and did what she/he had to do. I don't think it even occured to them to ask strangers for money. Maybe it's a mormon thing?
snapple said:I just noticed that this was a magazine for mormon people in San Diego. Didn't Raven move from San Diego when he was 14 (more than 11 years ago)? So, his grandmother is writing an article in San Diego to donate to a fund in Utah and about how cousins begged for money in Arizona for a woman that was murdered in North Carolina? Does this make sense to anybody else? It feels like people here are being opportunist.
It would bother me and I would feel as though they had taken advantage of other peoples generosity.golfmom said:This insurance question is really weighing heavy on me.
So, here's my question:
Let's say a friend/family member/aquaintance who's wife was brutally murdered solicited you to send money.
Would it bother you finding out at a later date that there was a SUBSTANTIAL life insurance policy in place?