RE: Jenna's money situation. It seems from previous posts there is some knowledge/access to information about debit card use related to the gas stations. Subie, do you have access to bank statements? If so, do you see any sort of money patterns? Someone with a regular job, either receives regular direct deposits into their bank account or would be depositing money with some regularity. Even if the family isn't aware of a specific job, money patterns might give some indication. If you have access to (or can get access to) an online bank account, there is usually quite a bit of useful information. Was money deposited cash or check? You should be able to see check images to see who wrote the checks. Was it a business or an individual? What kind of places did she use her debit card? Did she predominantly use the card to make payments or did she withdraw cash regularly and seemingly pay cash for things?
A lot of speculation has been made about this "double life" or "lying" to her parents about her life. It's true that it seems like she may have been acquainted with some "shady" characters and certainly seems to have kept aspects of her life private from her family, but I think that could probably also be said about the vast majority of young women in their 20s - or young people in general. It's easier for young people who have their own income to be able to keep certain aspects of their lives private from their families - and certainly that's perhaps easier to understand, since they have independence due to the ability to support themselves. However, I think we have to approach the "lying" with some level of realization that this is widespread among young people. This is a time in life when people are navigating the world as adults for the first time. Many 20 year olds are involved in behavior and with people that their parents would probably find shady, but they don't end up as missing persons. I'm not saying it should be completely ignored and all avenues should be pursued. I'm just saying that the privacy and lying in and of itself is not particularly abnormal for a 20-something.