You’re right on that. How is anyone to act in a nightmare situation like that? We don’t rehearse for the traumas we can’t see coming in our lives. I don’t believe she had anything to do with Katie’s murder and she, herself suffered immensely having to worry, face fear of something that she felt was wrong with her usually punctual partner not getting home and also not being in contact, and then finding the love of her life in the state none of can begin to imagine. When we have suffered losses, every one is an individual and unique time of anguish, disbelief and exquisite pain and heartbreak. I believe that each relationship is its own and though death is common, murder is not, but in both we act and feel as real as it gets.
No one’s autopsy should be made public-it’s not our business.
No 911 call should be released for public consumption-it comes out at a price to the person who called in possibly the worst moment of his or her life. It’s not our business.
And no one can set him/herself up as judge of someone else’s wrenching gut reaction to the murder of their loved one. We all react in our own ways.
I do believe the immediate family and friends keep in close contact with the APD. There are excellent men and women doing their jobs diligently as it’s true there are ones not as committed. As everywhere in life. I wonder, since I believe the above to be the case, would a podcast, a short documentary with the facts and the request for information and help be of value? Would it be of benefit to have an actor or actress who knew Katie narrate?