gitana1
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I'm sorry that you have to live with the stresses of single motherhood. I'm not defending anything. I can assure you that hot car deaths do happen quite often. I'm not sure if it relates to any specific cluster B personality disorders such as narcissism. I have seven children and I've left one or another most everywhere, but I've been fortunate. I'm just an advocate at heart. That's how I function. I don't know this man nor am I defending any aspect of his actions. I am simply speculating. Maybe I can jump into your corner someday... Advocacy is a double-edged sword and I've found myself eating my hat on many occasions. I just want to believe that this world is a better place than it is... I'm sometimes right.. Oh!... And I have a deep seated mistrust of the criminal justice system...and that probably is just some sort of paranoia --- but it's a crippling paranoia that I must try and live with one day at a time.
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I understand the distrust of the criminal justice system. There are major problems with it. [modsnip]
I look at facts. The facts generally speak for themselves. Yes, sometimes those facts make it obvious that LE is wrong and an innocent person is being railroaded. For example, Tonya Craft and the recent Steiniger/Weiner case. Most times, however, the arrest and charging of an innocent, middle class white person is rare. And the arrest of the dad here, based on the little that has been reported, shows this dude has likely done something horrible to his child, other than forgetting him in the car.
Oh, and as to hot car deaths, those actually do not happen often. An average of 38 kids per year die in this country from such events. But we have a population of 314 million. About 62 million are kids. So the percentage is so small it can almost not be quantified.
Of course it happens. It's just that common sense tells it didn't happen here.
1. The guy apparently searched on his computer, days before he claims his child died in a hot car, how long it takes an animal to die in a hot car.
2. The man forgot his only child in 3 minutes.
3. The man claimed he never went back to his car until the end of work. But cameras show otherwise.
4. The police arrested him very quickly, and charged him with felony murder, which is unusual in these cases.