I haven't checked in here for awhile but have been following this case via news articles. I'm still on the fence and am eagerly awaiting more info to be released.
While I agree that not a lot of what the father did makes sense, I have absolutely no idea how I would react if something that horrific truly happened and I knew I was directly responsible for it.
I believe things like this could happen. I forgot my baby in her infant carrier once - no, it wasn't in a hot car, but it does happen. My dd was in the NICU for a long time and had several appointments after we brought her home. One day I loaded up the kids for a dr. appt and made it half way to the dr. office before my 3yo reminded me that we had forgotten the baby!!! Holy sleep deprivation! Drove back home and there she was sleeping perfectly in her carseat in our mudroom. :/ THINGS HAPPEN.
I personally don't put too much into the internet searches. I'd like to hear a little more about what exactly was searched and when. With a similar case local to them, I would not find it strange that someone be looking up that sort of thing on the internet. So many of us have said here that if anyone close to us came up "missing" we would be concerned about some of our own internet searches. I imagine they could be a big problem for some of us. I know I read about the woman who poisoned her husband with Visine. I had never heard of it - never knew it was even remotely poisonous so I searched it and read more about it. I read about the mother who poisoned her child by giving her too much salt (in a feeding tube I think it was?)...again, was complete curiosity. I would hate to think what would happen to me if something happened to my husband or kids - and just because of internet searches.
I am so so sad for this little boy though - how horrific. If it was premeditated, there is a special place in he!! for this awful person.
While I agree that not a lot of what the father did makes sense, I have absolutely no idea how I would react if something that horrific truly happened and I knew I was directly responsible for it.
I believe things like this could happen. I forgot my baby in her infant carrier once - no, it wasn't in a hot car, but it does happen. My dd was in the NICU for a long time and had several appointments after we brought her home. One day I loaded up the kids for a dr. appt and made it half way to the dr. office before my 3yo reminded me that we had forgotten the baby!!! Holy sleep deprivation! Drove back home and there she was sleeping perfectly in her carseat in our mudroom. :/ THINGS HAPPEN.
I personally don't put too much into the internet searches. I'd like to hear a little more about what exactly was searched and when. With a similar case local to them, I would not find it strange that someone be looking up that sort of thing on the internet. So many of us have said here that if anyone close to us came up "missing" we would be concerned about some of our own internet searches. I imagine they could be a big problem for some of us. I know I read about the woman who poisoned her husband with Visine. I had never heard of it - never knew it was even remotely poisonous so I searched it and read more about it. I read about the mother who poisoned her child by giving her too much salt (in a feeding tube I think it was?)...again, was complete curiosity. I would hate to think what would happen to me if something happened to my husband or kids - and just because of internet searches.
I am so so sad for this little boy though - how horrific. If it was premeditated, there is a special place in he!! for this awful person.