My question to the people who want to send Maria back to either of the two families is this:
Who the hell is "Michaelis"?
And why is he keeping tabs on Maria? (this is the guy that the Greek family claimed left her there, periodically visited, even after the couple was taken into custody, according to their lawyer).
Reporters who visited the bio-parents village report neighbors as claiming that it was common for pregnant women of the village to go to Greece to have babies, and leave them there for a fee. Who is buying these babies? Presumably not the Greek Roma, who probably enough babies of their own. So who then? And what role does "Michaelis" play? Is he the trafficker that organizes all this? Is the Greek village the place where the women are kept until they give birth?
We hear reports of bio-mom being arrested twice in Greece on suspicion of baby selling, one of which coincides with the approximate time Maria was apparently left there.
There is something evil going on here. On the face of it, it appears that the Bulgarian village has a nice little economy going on supported by selling their children. And individuals in the Greek village are participating on the other end. That is why there are so many lies and no one wants to really talk about it.
How do we know that this "Michaelis" individual does not own Maria, and will not come back some day to recover his "investment" when she is old enough?
That is why she should not go back to either of these communities.
Gypsies do not give or sell their children to outsiders. They do not adopt them out to non-Gypsies. The abject poverty of these people belies the statement that they are making money selling children.
And there has been zero proof after all this hoopla, that there has been any "selling" of children except possibly this child.
Maria should be adopted into a stable family. She doesn't have much of a future living solely on government benefits.
How many poor kids are in the world? How many living on benefits? How many poor Gypsy kids are there like Maria? If living on government benefits was a threshold for yanking kids from their homes, watch out.
It's very hard for me to understand the logic as it seems like telling lots of stories that can't possibly all be true at the same time just makes people look guiltier and gives everybody more opportunities, not fewer, to implicate them in some wrong doing.
I know. It's frustrating to me as well. They live in such a different, parallel world with a completely different set of laws and legal council (the Kris), many are illiterate or totally ignorant of the laws of the society they live among. Many do not even speak the language of the people of the country they are in, because they consider themselves a nation, albeit a migrant one, so their language goes with them. They are generally sharp, but not legally sophisticated. For centuries, lying and telling various stories to outsiders has protected them. It certainly has not in this case.
I've read that Islam is one of the common religions among Roma. Now I think that the Koran doesn't actually mention circumcision, but I'm pretty sure it's in a widely accepted text about laws governing hygiene, etc. Do Roma practicing Islam routinely forgo circumcision?
Islam is a religion that some Gypsies practice. But the majority are Christian. Gypsies who practice Islam do sometimes circumcise their kids, in certain countries, as I have seen. However, I was giving a general example about how the practices of one culture may seem insane by another. Hopefully that's clear.
I have absolutely no idea, since i can't find anything reported on them.
But she isn't related to any of those children.
They are her siblings nevertheless. To her, to them and to the group as a whole.
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That's the issue I have. The 'culture' seems to revolve around lying, thieving, and defrauding. Yes, I am judgmental of that. Anyone here who does not participate in a criminal lifestyle is judgmental of it just by virture of choosing not to do it.
Are we supposed to be ok with this just because it's the 'culture'?
By many accounts, the criminality is not isolated but is a way of life.
Linking it to poverty is not an acceptable reason for it to continue. I understand the Roma people have evolved this way due to history but that doesn't make it ok.
This post is not a personal attack on anyone but an attempt to understand more through discussion (especially you Gitana because I think you're awesome!).
Thanks, LadyL.
The culture does not revolve around thieving and defrauding. Much of my research is about Gypsy criminality. It is a stereotype. Most work in things like entertainment, animal trading, auto repair and trading, psychic work, tinkering, home repair, migrant farm work, factory work, etc., etc. The types and levels of criminality are low and not as widespread as so many keep repeating.
Some resort to criminality because few want to give them a job. As you can see, racism against Gypsies is so entrenched, it can be impossible to rise above.
I am not sure how to make any clearer-the adoption was not legal. In fact under Greek law it's considered an abduction. So extended family of Greek Romas doesn't have any rights to the child.
That may not be true. They may have laws that determine something close to the best interest of the child and that might include staying with the extended family of the de facto adoptive parents.
I;m not sure what is funny. "Gypsy" is an ethnicity or heritage in the same way Irish, Italian or Arab is. They come from India, about 2000 years a ago and speak a language close to Sanskrit and Hindi.
Wow, so little Maria is Roma. That's pretty cool. I like stories that defy prejudice and pre-conceived notions.
Her gypsy foster parents, as they were, told the truth after all. Also cool and flying in the face of stereotypes.
Now as to what happens to all of them, I can't even being to guess. What a giant mess.
The Greece authorities are probably disappointed that they didn't recuse a kidnapped caucasian child from the clutches of evil gypsies. Turns out she was merely passed on to another clan member like any other member of her tribe would be if times/circumstances called for it.
She looks loved to me by the people in her foster family (and extended foster family).
Here's a link with videos that I haven't seen before. What a cute, cute girl.
http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-18563_1...dentifies-mother-of-mystery-gypsy-girl-maria/
There were posts talking about how sad-faced Maria was despondent because all the joy of childhood had been sucked from her by the evil Gypsy child stealers. I hope those who felt that way watch the videos at your link of clean, well-groomed, chubby-cheeked, smiling and laughing little Maria who appears adored.
How many gypsies did Hitler murder?
I know it was a lot!
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Between about 250 thousand to 2 million. It just so happens that my other research was on exactly this - precisely, Gypsy reparations for the Holocaust.
It was reported that she is a gypsy child that was physically and psychologically neglected in the Greek Roma home where she was living. Permanent foster care is a terrible idea, but how can she live with an adoptive family given her early childhood. It seems almost as though she should be returned to the only family that she has ever known, and her family should be supported so that the children; she and her younger siblings, can be monitored and educated, provided with food, clothing and roof over the head, if necessary. It looks like they have a roof over their heads, but it's not really big enough for the whole family. I say return her to her family, let her parents out of jail, and support the family that sold her ... donations should come ... especially the 800 or 8000 families from all over the world that showed interest in claiming a true blond.
Perhaps you should watch the videos linked to above. The Greek authorities appeared to have been operating under the same bias that has affected the Roma for two thousand years. So they interpreted Maria as abused and neglected. But their story kept changing: First she only spoke a few words at all. Then, she spoke only Romani. First she was "confused" and then, showed appreciation for the "kindnesses" shown to her, acting them out with her dolls. Later, it comes out that she cried every night and doesn;t like the food being given to her.
I don;t trust a damn thing those people say about this Gypsy kid. Not at this point. I never saw one sign of "abuse" or neglect. Just some poverty.
During WW2, not only were the gypsies rounded up, but Jewish people and people with a mental defects (such as Down's Syndrome) were sent to concentration camps. Twins were especially valuable to Josef Mengele at Auschwitz. Approximately six million Jewish people were murdered. Add to that, everyone that was not blond haired, blue eyed and perfect.
That's no excuse for selling a Bulgarian child in a Greek olive grove. It appears to me that absence of education, nutritious food, and accommodations has contributed to this story.
When people adopt a child in the United States, they often pay thousands for the child. What these people did was legal under the laws of their own nation and was likely not buying and selling to them. It was just outside the Greek system.
This case has made me look up Roma to learn more. There are a few videos of them dancing together in their homes. Young and old, very happy. They are a beautiful loving bunch of people with some really wise customs, such as not washing tops with bottoms. That's something I find disgusting too, and I'm not even Roma.
That's a trait I have from my heritage. I always use two towels - above the waist and below!
I wouldn't like to see her returned to the people who have raised her so far until there is some explanation about the other children they're registered as being parents to. Weren't there 14 other children registered in 10 months that are nowhere to be seen? I'm sure I read news stories about that but I'm on my phone and I'm hving trouble with some links.
In most countries, children are not taken from their families if the family is involved in welfare fraud. However, if they are not legal guardians, and are involved in fraud, it is unlikely this family will get the kid back.