10ofRods
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I was only trying to accurately portray (in my interpretation) the difference in what was stated in msm vs the statement made in a prior post that the kayaker had never met Ng until the moment they were in the kayak group, which to me implied the two were not from the same retreat group.
It is my opinion that they were from the same retreat group. Of course, I don’t know for certain, just based on statements such as this:
“Ng's family said they attempted to reach [name withheld] after the incident - first by giving their number to the yoga instructor in charge of the group, then through other contacts. They say they sent two separate emails dated Oct. 25 and Oct. 31. They say [name withheld] didn't respond to any of their pleas for information.” Link
In the end, IMO, how well acquainted the two women were would end up not having much relevance to what happened in the moment while out there on the water. There was nothing more the witness could have done once Nancy went under and didn’t resurface. MOO
Gotcha. I now think the witness was part of yoga retreat, but I doubt they all knew each other well. I think I've seen it reported both ways (that NN and the witness were in the yoga group; also that they didn't know each other - but paddled off in the same direction, apparently).
The problem with Ng's family is that they do not have proof that the Yoga instructor ever passed the information on to this person. Ng's family would like to think they did, but as I will keep saying - the yoga retreat and its instructors have been anything but transparent and forthcoming. Ng's family has done all it could to publicly push this traumatized person into communicating with them. Those emails were not, IMO, sent directly to this witness but to the yoga retreat. Who were these "other contacts"? Their own lawyer? A private investigator?
I don't know about you, but the instant I find out someone has hired a lawyer or a PI in regards to a situation I'm in, I too am going to clam up and lawyer up. Esp in California.
Anyway, the article we're discussing (thank you for linking) says they reached out to the Yoga retreat via email, so I assume the two emails mentioned went to the retreat and not to CB. No where is it established or said that NN's family emailed directly to CB. I understand they are impatient and I too would probably want to speak to the person who last saw my child alive - but, in so many cases, that's not what really happens.
CB sounds as if she followed the advice of authorities in Guatemala and has chosen not to engage in private correspondence with NN's family - which is a wise decision, in this case. I really want to know who those "other contacts" with CB are said to be. Social media? Facebook? Insta? Because I (and many people) never read any of messages on those platforms, except ones prioritized by me in my settings - and that's ONLY people I know - it's like answering unknown callers, I don't know anyone who does that, either).
IMO. So now the family has its answers directly from that person. I hope it helps them heal and I hope CB can also return to coping, however she is coping, with attempting and failing to save someone's life in such dreadful circumstances.