Conductor71
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There were plenty of people walking there on the mall- why did she not stop and ask someone for help getting to where she was going? She also passed by several bars/nightclubs from the time she turned onto the mall and the time she ran into JM (somewhere between Sal's and Tuel's). She could have easily asked for safe help from a bouncer as opposed to approaching a stranger if she didn't feel comfortable with that.
Obviously we can't get inside her head. I'm just trying to understand why, if she was as lost and totally beside herself with directions in order to end up at the DM as is a working theory, she didn't take the ample opportunity presented there on the DM to get turned back the right way. OR, at the very least, stop walking. And sit down and wait for her friends in one place- such as in front of an open bar that she walked by. One of the first things I learned as a kid from my parents was that if I got lost, not to keep walking around but to stay put :thinking:
This is IMO, is what is so strikingly similar to MH's disappearance. Yes , there is another thread, but I think it is highly relevant here too.
Both girls...
become isolated from friends for reasons no one can explain.
voluntarily go off on their own and disappear within 45 minutes of doing so.
exhibit erratic behavior not adequately explained by drinking too much.
receive offers of help, rides, or walking escort which they decline.
are not really stranded:
HG ends up taking a detour through the DM when she intended to go between residential parties- why not wait for a friend or backtrack to previous party?
MH hitchhikes for a ride when her own car sits nearby in a lot at the arena. Her friends had the keys- why not wait until the concert is over
Maybe all coincidence but given that all friends are on gag order (some since 2009), I would say that this there is more to the story than two girls being preyed upon due to lowered inhibitions, JMO.