[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Cr[/FONT]owley was on "The Today Show" and, truthfully, he looked shell shocked -- like he couldn't [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]believe how out of control everything has become. He had no swagger or tough talk. He said when Gates answered the door he was agitated and immediately started saying "is this how black men are treated in America." Crowley was surprised by Gates re[/FONT]ference and couldn't understand what he was trying to say. Now looking [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]at this [/FONT]from the beginning[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif],[/FONT] and [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]at that moment not [/FONT]knowing Gate[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]'[/FONT]s particular background, I can understand why Crowley was confused and concerned. The situation didn't seem to merit that kind of response. Gates was confrontational from the start and continually implied racial discrimination. The police were just wanting to check the house not trying to provoke a fight. Since Gates did actually need to "break" into his house, you would think he could understand why the police were called and not assume they were there because they want[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]ed[/FONT] to bust a black man[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif].[/FONT]
Truthfully, day to day, the police are interacting with people that are up to no good. [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]E[/FONT]veryone knows who they they are and [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]they [/FONT]know their level of behaviors but the police do not. To assume they will automatically understand your comments, [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]actions, or rants is assuming too much. Personally, I think both should try and settle this with a conversation, but I do think the first figurative punch was thrown by Gates. He was railing for a fight and when he got one he [/FONT][FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]didn't anticipate the outcome. He seems to be enjoying the attention just a bit too much. Unfortunately, [/FONT][FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]this [/FONT]distorts the issue of [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]many [/FONT]minorities that are truly being abused.
As for the president, he should have said "no comment' since he didn't know all the details. His words carry more importance and have a deeper impact on any situation he discusses. I am surprised he doesn't realize that.
Lessons learned:
1) Get to know your neighbors so they recognize you if you need to break into your house.
2) You can stand up for yourself without becoming confrontational. I would have thought Gates knew that and had more skills to handle this situation[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif] better[/FONT] just as the police should have better [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]managed his [/FONT]childish outburst.
3) Since you don't know the temperament of the policeman standing in front of you, think before you speak. If you insist on making [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]it[/FONT] all about you, don't be surprised if the police do[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif] too[/FONT].