GrainneDhu
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Not being snarky, but protect them from what?:waitasec: They were found dead. If it were me, I'd want to know anything that anyone found to be a remote possibility of them killing my child.
I guess I'm misunderstanding....I wouldn't want people to NOT talk about it, I'd want everyone talking every day until this SOB was caught. But that's just me.
There isn't anything anyone could say that wouldn't have already gone through my head as to what happened to my baby...I'm sure those parents have thought about the absolute worst at some point along the way. So, I'd be of the opinion of "don't pity me...HELP ME FIND WHO DID THIS".:twocents:
Some of the speculation I've heard (on WS and elsewhere) would just be hurtful. Such as graphic descriptions of what might have happened to the girls, graphic descriptions of scavenger activity, etc. No parent of a deceased child needs to hear that sort of thing without asking for it.
Drew and Heather Collins have specifically said that they don't want to know details, they try not to think about them. Respecting that wish is the least anyone can do in face of the tragedy that has befallen them.