StacyMarie83
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I don't think a parent can be held responsible for choices their ADULT children make. You can be a wonderful parent, and still your grown kids might make lousy choices. Sometimes environment, genes, or random circumstances have a bigger impact than the way a person is raised, imo.
absolutely! my grandma raised 4 alcoholics and then got me. I have drank just a few times in my life, never been arrested, etc. It's b.s. to think you know it all, when in fact you have no idea. As a philosophy major going for my PhD, nature vs. nurture is no small argument and it's never "as simple as that"
I can see why people want to delve into the parents past, IMO it has got this thread off topic many times and continues to do so. It's sad.