jillycat
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The benefit of the doubt, to me, lies in considering his POV and feelings, with the example of a previous remark re: his/one's lifestyle being potentially threatened (in his case by his victim reacting negatively to being preyed on). We could also call it a sympathetic consideration.Im not sure anyone is giving him the benefit of the doubt, unless you are referring to making excuses that this was just a scared, lost individual who just suddenly snapped. I don't believe this is the case and certainly does not excuse his behavior in any way even if it was. Chasing her down is definitely not reflective of his desire to date her, I wouldn't even say maybe. I feel he acted deliberately, and people are just trying to put the pieces of the crime together by gaining a better understanding of the kind of killer he is. That is exactly what investigators do. Imo, I don't think there is anyone who is trying to make excuses for his behavior in any way at all!
I just don't think it makes sense that someone who lives with a daily fear that life as he knew it could end would work so hard to make that happen by risking exposure of not a nickname, but apparently an altogether false identity for 7 years, and then solving that crisis with murder.
Whatever the case, I think her sense of being threatened trumps his. So once he started seeking her out and following her, I don't really care how he felt. And I think he's the type of killer that has/had so little conscience that he really didn't concern himself much beyond dusting himself off and going to work the next day. For 5 weeks.