10ofRods
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Run of the mill arraignments don’t have national media on the Courthouse steps. When I practiced in NYC people routinely hid their faces to avoid snarky comments from the New York Post. Only the white collar criminal defense attorneys are standing proud hoping the WSJ runs a picture.
This is why I love WS. While we don't get a lot of face-hiding people here where I live, we are also not a group of people who walks around with our faces being recognizable (the many suburbs of SoCal, no one remembers anyone and we truly are in our cars most of the time). NYC is much more personal, or at least that's my impression of it. Still, NYers (to me) often look pretty unperturbed in general.
These parents are older (I guess they are Gen X? Maybe Dad is a Boomer - hate what that has come to mean, but hopefully you get my drift).
I feel that the parents' reaction is so sad, so heartbroken. We're watching them in their most dire moment, a moment that almost no one has ever experienced. And in the first moments of that, with sleepless nights behind them. People saying that they would *plan* to hide in a circumstance like this are not the same as these parents, who never thought they'd be facing this.
Their son is responsible for their pain and shame. It's awful.