MsFacetious
What a Kerfuffle...
- Joined
- Jun 2, 2010
- Messages
- 21,624
- Reaction score
- 33,036
Websleuths has very strict rules about blaming the family when the family isn't named a suspect.
Several people were working on trying to FIND Chy, without posting about it here.
This happens on several cases. It doesn't mean we didn't care, it means we followed Websleuths rules. :waitasec:
I have been on threads where I was pretty much the only person posting on that thread.
When people finally came... I was thrilled that thread was getting attention.
There could be other explanations for why the family wasn't making a huge stink about it.
It sounds to me like the family ultimately resigned themselves to her having run away.
Maybe they were afraid she would do something drastic if they found her?
Maybe they thought she was better off living somewhere else?
If someone else is culpable, I hope they are charged.
This is obviously a family that was not without it's problems....
However the mother and sister always expressed that they missed Chy and wanted her back.
They did not know she was dead and murdered... they are now devastated.
You know what they say "you don't know what you've got until it's gone."
I think in the future the family not looking for a child should certainly be a red flag.
I wouldn't be surprised if the suspect convinced the rest of the family she DID run away.
Maybe he even said she had threatened to kill herself if they found her.
We just have NO idea why the family didn't look for her enough or what the perp might have told them. :twocents:
Several people were working on trying to FIND Chy, without posting about it here.
This happens on several cases. It doesn't mean we didn't care, it means we followed Websleuths rules. :waitasec:
I have been on threads where I was pretty much the only person posting on that thread.
When people finally came... I was thrilled that thread was getting attention.
There could be other explanations for why the family wasn't making a huge stink about it.
It sounds to me like the family ultimately resigned themselves to her having run away.
Maybe they were afraid she would do something drastic if they found her?
Maybe they thought she was better off living somewhere else?
If someone else is culpable, I hope they are charged.
This is obviously a family that was not without it's problems....
However the mother and sister always expressed that they missed Chy and wanted her back.
They did not know she was dead and murdered... they are now devastated.
You know what they say "you don't know what you've got until it's gone."
I think in the future the family not looking for a child should certainly be a red flag.
I wouldn't be surprised if the suspect convinced the rest of the family she DID run away.
Maybe he even said she had threatened to kill herself if they found her.
We just have NO idea why the family didn't look for her enough or what the perp might have told them. :twocents: