katydid23
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One of the links mentioned Laquans mom was only 14 she had him. She didnt have parenting skills. She had substance abuse problems. The one msm article (the long one) demonstrated how many social servises agencies tried to help Laquan. Per the artcle, Laquan admitted not having coping skills (this is a huge part of addiction), didn't want the help offered him and just wanted to stay high because it kept a smile on his face.
I'm not going to blame his family, we have generation after generation who lack the basic skills to parent. Mass amounts of substance abuse because users want to escape. The two biggest things, imo, are the lack of coping skills and the lack of self worth. How do people like Laquan gain any sense of self worth? They're born into poverty, addiction, crime ridden neighborhoods. It's pretty easy to see why they feel hopeless. Ive heard if a person has two addicted parents, they have a 90 percent chance of becoming an addict or marrying an addict. Toss in people being suspicious because of skin color and put oneself in Laquan's shoes. I think it's easy to see how someone could feel worthless and basically give up and just exist.
Officer Van Dyke failed Laquan. He took away the chance for revovery for Laquan. Officer Van Dyke also failed his wife and daughters. Imagine growing up knowing your daddy is in prison for murder. I don't see how Van Dyke can beat this. And if he is found not guilty, God help Chicago. The Rodney King backlash will look like a trip to Disney compared to what coukd happen in Chicago.
The best option I see for Van Dyke is for him to make a deal and plead guilty to a lesser charge.
Sounds like you are making excuses for and writing off large groups of people. Did they really not know they needed to care for this little boy, born to a 14 yr old? To say ' we have generation after generation who lack the basic skills to parent. Mass amounts of substance abuse because users want to escape.' ---that is a huge cop out. So it's OK that he was neglected and abandoned because they wanted to get high? I am not giving them a pass. Plenty of kids were born in his neighborhood and were cared for and loved and raised to be productive, positive people.
The officer deserves to be charged with murder. Absolutely. But we also need to figure out how to prevent these tragedies from occurring. And that will take some help and guidance for these kids to prevent them from getting into these volatile face offs with armed officers.