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I honestly don't understand why Oshar would be willing to leave her own children and family in Indonesia to come here to live. Is she to be compensated out of Stella's Trust Fund then?
Not doubting that there is a parent / child bond between Oshar and Stella. Just wish Stella could have a permanent guardian appointed now. I worry that Oshar can't live in the US and leave her own children for years. How's this going to work for long? The good part is Stella feels secure with Oshar. Stella will be starting school and adjusting to life in the US, and it is nice she'll have Oshar there to help her adjust.
Not doubting that there is a parent / child bond between Oshar and Stella. Just wish Stella could have a permanent guardian appointed now. I worry that Oshar can't live in the US and leave her own children for years. How's this going to work for long? The good part is Stella feels secure with Oshar. Stella will be starting school and adjusting to life in the US, and it is nice she'll have Oshar there to help her adjust.
Heather Mack’s daughter back in care of woman who raised her in Indonesia
Oshar Suartama confirmed for a judge Friday that she had arrived in Illinois and had reunited with 7-year-old Estelle Schaefer, known as Stella. The child’s therapist has told the judge “there’s no question” Stella sees that woman “as her mother and the primary caretaker in her life.”
chicago.suntimes.com
The caretaker, Oshar Suartama, confirmed for Cook County Judge Stephanie Miller on Friday that she had arrived in Illinois and had reunited with 7-year-old Estelle Schaefer, known as Stella. The child’s therapist previously told the judge “there’s no question that Stella perceives [Suartama] as her mother and the primary caretaker in her life.”
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Stella’s court-appointed advocate, Theresa Ceko, told the judge that the lease on Suartama’s home in suburban Chicago doesn’t begin until July 10. Ceko said she knew where Suartama planned to stay in the meantime, but she did not want to disclose the location. Ceko confirmed for the judge that Suartama would be living in Illinois.