LI_Mom
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I have enormous sympathy for the grandparents (and Lee).... I think all the tragic mistakes they made (and continue to make) are made out of love.
Looking back it's easy to see what they should have done along the way but none of us change the past.
I wish with all my heart that someone would step forward to help this family come to grips with this horrible nightmare.... I think after so many years of living with Casey's lies & abnormal behavior, they've become NUMB to most of it & so much just doesn't even affect them anymore they hardly realize how dysfunctional the whole family has become trying to cope with her.
Until they're ready to admit the truth to themselves, Casey will feel that her LIES are accomplishing something.... if only to feed her own sickness.
I can't say I think they DESERVE what they got but if they refuse to change the way THEY deal with reality, they certainly are in no position to help their daughter OR to heal their family.
Sad. A whole family devastated.
Looking back it's easy to see what they should have done along the way but none of us change the past.
I wish with all my heart that someone would step forward to help this family come to grips with this horrible nightmare.... I think after so many years of living with Casey's lies & abnormal behavior, they've become NUMB to most of it & so much just doesn't even affect them anymore they hardly realize how dysfunctional the whole family has become trying to cope with her.
Until they're ready to admit the truth to themselves, Casey will feel that her LIES are accomplishing something.... if only to feed her own sickness.
I can't say I think they DESERVE what they got but if they refuse to change the way THEY deal with reality, they certainly are in no position to help their daughter OR to heal their family.
Sad. A whole family devastated.