One can retain a lawyer but still cooperate with an investigation and the parents of a victim. One can retain a lawyer and not fully cooperate, but still show some compassion towards the victim and her family. How people act in times of crisis is a true test of character. I think the Spierers have shown incredible restraint, courage and grace over the past few years in light of what they have had to deal with. I can't say the same of the POI and some of their family members.
This must be an incredibly difficult time, yet again, for Lauren's friends and family. Thinking of them, as we all hope for a break in her case.
When one retains an attorney, one follows the advice of said attorney. Really, the POIs did exactly as I would advise anyone to do, when questioned about such a case, where involvement is there prior to the disappearance. Yes, you can get railroaded if not careful. I am saying this even as I have little sympathy for those men, and all the sympathy for the Spierers.
As for the Spierers showing great restraint, I'm not sure what more they could have done in going after those POIs, with really no proof that they were directly, hands-on responsible for Lauren. They believe that they are and have done ALL they could to find evidence, which has not gone well at all for them. Had more been done in other venues, maybe something more could have been found. Or maybe the POIs were all that LE and the PIs could find.
I wish some thing, any little thing would come up to give some more direction to Lauren's case. I wish she would be found, even if not alive, which at this point I'd think it's most certainly she is not alive. It would, give the parents, a bit of closure. That they are at such a dead end is very much a sore to them
I have friends who lost their son who had a night similar to Lauren's but he died on the sofa of the last place he stopped. No one noticed for over 12 hours. Thought he was asleep. He'd had head traumas from the night before, and the parents were very bitter that no one called EMTs, insisted he go to an ER, called the parents. Not at Indiana, but another such school. The "friends" all lawyered up and wouldn't say a word due to advice from lawyers and parents. Those grieving parents spent a fortune to send their daughter to a private college far from home, as they blamed the environment, culture and those there. Daughter was present at some "pharm" party where a participant died. And, they got a lawyer, their daughter was told to say little to nothing, and I guess they found out what happens at that side of such tragedies.
No answers to these things.