Inconsistencies in DB's Story

[RANCH]

It's not a rumor. Just because I wont reveal my source. You forget, I have talked to a lot of family members in this case.

Fair enough. And I can chose to believe it or not.

 

[melissasmom]

It's not a rumor. Just because I wont reveal my source. You forget, I have talked to a lot of family members in this case.

So your source actually said that DB was friends with SB to keep her from flirting with Jeremy? I just think that's odd. If DB befriended her it sould seem that SB would be around more than if they weren't friends, giving SB and Jeremy MORE of a chance to flirt. Not questioning you, that just makes no sense to me. I am not a jealous person so I don't understand this tactic.
Also, what do you make of MT saying JB resembled the man he saw that night? Isn't JB VERY short? That's what I heard anyway.

 

[kansascitypi]

Sure. Knock yourself out. I won't lose any sleep if you don't believe it. I'm not here for any one person's approval.

 

[kansascitypi]

Melissasmom, I'm heading out. I have plans. Did you read my blog yet on that? It may answer the MT questions.
What I was saying earlier is that SB and DB were not friends initially. I'm not sure how close friends they are now. I know SB spoke to JI before she and DB ever talked much. They now are cordial. Not saying they're not friends, just don't believe them to be tight. Without violating any trusts, I have met everybody we have been talking about except JI.

 

[melissasmom]

Melissasmom, I'm heading out. I have plans. Did you read my blog yet on that? It may answer the MT questions.
What I was saying earlier is that SB and DB were not friends initially. I'm not sure how close friends they are now. I know SB spoke to JI before she and DB ever talked much. They now are cordial. Not saying they're not friends, just don't believe them to be tight. Without violating any trusts, I have met everybody we have been talking about except JI.

Ok. hope you return when you get the chance.
And yes, I have read your blog. I'll read it again. And I look at your FB page every few days. I just don't make comments, don't need internet crazies sleuthing me.

 

[highflyer]

KansasCitypi have you looked into the cause of death of Tamara Sparks?

 

[vlpate]

It's not a rumor. Just because I wont reveal my source. You forget, I have talked to a lot of family members in this case.

I've never known you to mislead or spread rumors. I, for one, appreciate your taking the time to come here and share, even if it means citing an unnamed source in order to maintain a confidence.

Have a good night

 

[RANCH]

Melissasmom, I'm heading out. I have plans. Did you read my blog yet on that? It may answer the MT questions.
What I was saying earlier is that SB and DB were not friends initially. I'm not sure how close friends they are now. I know SB spoke to JI before she and DB ever talked much. They now are cordial. Not saying they're not friends, just don't believe them to be tight. Without violating any trusts, I have met everybody we have been talking about except JI.

BBM (Bolded By Me)

I apologize for using the word "rumor" in my above post. I can see from this post, it's your opinion and not fact when you speak of these relationships. It would help in the future to state what is opinion rather than fact. If talking about information gained from confidential sources, lets us know. It makes a difference when reading your posts. Sorry for the confusion.

 

[In da Middle]

I'm told the women aren't even that good of friends. I think DB became friends with SB so make sure she wasn't flirting with JI. Then, SB has since admitted she carried on an "emotional affair" with Mike LeRette even prior to Lisa going missing.

This is in no way disregarding what you were told by others, but they sure were together a LOT both before and after this for not being very good friends. when I saw one, I almost always saw the other. Again, both before and after his happened.

 

[In da Middle]

I keep coming back tot he fact that the night the baby went missing is the very same night that DB LEFT HIS WIFE. And we know he drove around, lurking, and watching them for awhile. :what:

Meeeee too! Except I think you meant JB instead of DB (too many B's!)

 

[RANCH]

This is in no way disregarding what you were told by others, but they sure were together a LOT both before and after this for not being very good friends. when I saw one, I almost always saw the other. Again, both before and after his happened.

Well, all I can say is I trust your first hand account of seeing the two of them together over an un-named source. I would find it very unusual for two people to hang out together for an extended period of time and not be good friends.

 

[In da Middle]

SB and JB went to a therapist earlier in the day, IIRC, and they decided amicably to separate. She didn't "kick" him out, unless there's information out there that's not been released to the public.

I agree that they were probably talking about the relationship and comparing notes - I just don't see what their conversation would have to do with BL. IMO

Well "kicked out" might be too strong of a word that I used, but from what I am hearing from neighbors that live up there, amicable does not describe that particular night at all. Drama is the word I have heard the most describing that afternoon between SB and JB. Then JB leaves.

 

[In da Middle]

Well, all I can say is I trust your first hand account of seeing the two of them together over an un-named source. I would find it very unusual for two people to hang out together for an extended period of time and not be good friends.

All I am saying though, to be clear, is that they were seen nearly everyday outside together before and still seen many, maybe even most, days together after this happened. I have no idea as to what exactly their relationship is or was but that's an awful lot of together time for not being very good friends to me.

 

[RANCH]

All I am saying though, to be clear, is that they were seen nearly everyday outside together before and still seen many, maybe even most, days together after this happened. I have no idea as to what exactly their relationship is or was but that's an awful lot of together time for not being very good friends to me.

I understand. It could have been a ruse by Debbie to make people think she's friends with SB when she's really trying to keep her away from Jeremy.

ETA: That comes out sounding like a bad soap opera.

 

[melissasmom]

I understand. It could have been a ruse by Debbie to make people think she's friends with SB when she's really trying to keep her away from Jeremy.

Oooooh, the old 'I will make this girl my bff so she doesn't steal my man' trick.
OK
:floorlaugh:

 

[highflyer]

All I am saying though, to be clear, is that they were seen nearly everyday outside together before and still seen many, maybe even most, days together after this happened. I have no idea as to what exactly their relationship is or was but that's an awful lot of together time for not being very good friends to me.

They certainly resembled each other. Perhaps that was a bond.

 

[katydid23]

Well "kicked out" might be too strong of a word that I used, but from what I am hearing from neighbors that live up there, amicable does not describe that particular night at all. Drama is the word I have heard the most describing that afternoon between SB and JB. Then JB leaves.

That is what makes me suspicious of him. There is nothing as emotional and intense as walking away from a marriage, especially with kids involved.

I know how I felt when my first marriage blew up. Leaving the house that night was surreal, and I was very on edge, and bitter about his new girlfriend.

I could just imagine how JB was feeling, driving around, wondering if SB was feeling as bad as he was,then seeing her sitting on the stoop, laughing and drinking with Debra. He probably blamed DB a bit as well, because it is natural to blame the best friend for stirring things up and being a bad influence.

Did he wonder where his little girl was later on, while his wife was sitting and talking to the male neighbor? I would have been mad.

eta: Really weird that Mike Thompson identified him as the guy walking with a baby. And LE gave him a lie detector test, so they had their suspicions raised as well.

 

[RANCH]

They certainly resembled each other. Perhaps that was a bond.

You think so? I've never scene a picture of SB so I can't say. Can people that don't resemble each other develop a bond? I think that happens.

 

[highflyer]

You think so? I've never scene a picture of SB so I can't say. Can people that don't resemble each other develop a bond? I think that happens.

Yes. It most certainly does.

 

[SyraKelly]

That is what makes me suspicious of him. There is nothing as emotional and intense as walking away from a marriage, especially with kids involved.

I know how I felt when my first marriage blew up. Leaving the house that night was surreal, and I was very on edge, and bitter about his new girlfriend.

I could just imagine how JB was feeling, driving around, wondering if SB was feeling as bad as he was,then seeing her sitting on the stoop, laughing and drinking with Debra. He probably blamed DB a bit as well, because it is natural to blame the best friend for stirring things up and being a bad influence.

Did he wonder where his little girl was later on, while his wife was sitting and talking to the male neighbor? I would have been mad.

eta: Really weird that Mike Thompson identified him as the guy walking with a baby. And LE gave him a lie detector test, so they had their suspicions raised as well.

But JB has a car and was driving around that night..why would he be walking at that time of night-I do not believe MT saw JB that night