I don't understand this..Just because I'm different I guess..If mom worked from home why would you need daycare? Most moms work from home so they wouldn't need it.
Just my own opinion ..would have loved to have worked from home so I could watch my own child when they was young!
My SIL works from home and she said she needs no distractions. She is constantly on the phone and checking emails, on her computer etc. She puts her daughters in daycare. She told me that she gets up and gets ready like she's going OUT for work, like it's a normal day, but works from home. She said she doesn't even turn the TV on and rarely puts on background music. She's very focused on her work.
Regarding the careseat- I posted this before but I'll post it again. My brother is a certified installer. He had to take a 40 hour class just to learn to properly install carseats! I asked him what would happen if someone put a toddler into a rear facing infant seat on the lowest setting. He told me that he was surprised they got the baby in AT ALL. He also said if the child struggled he would think they would have significant bruising because the straps would just be SO tight.