RaspberryMama
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I can tell you that I was given breaks in my life that made all of the difference. I could have been arrested. I deserved it.
Had I been arrested, I would never have had the career in Corporate America that I had, probably would have never met my current husband and never have had the charmed life that I now have.
It is amazing how a few decisions by a few kind police officers can make all of the difference in a kid's life.
I'm so glad to hear that you benefited from the kindness of those police officers.
Parts of this trial have really caused me to reflect on my own life. I grew up in a dysfunctional family and was the scapegoat child. I was told I was the cause of every problem. I was told a lot of lies about myself... Things I can't imagine saying to my own children. But for the grace of God my life could have taken an awful turn too. I had a very independent and stubborn sense of self and that saved me I think (although it was what made me so "difficult" too).
After completely cutting ties with my abusive parents and getting therapy I'm in a much healthier place now, but this sentencing hearing brought up a lot of memories and a sense of resolve to be compassionate. You just never know the difference a little sincere concern and kindness might make.