madeleine
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madeleine, that's an excellent question. And it seems that reasoning made quite an impression on Burke.
I can only guess, but my vote would go to his grandma, Patsy's mom, as being the one to tell Burke these words of wisdom. I always figured kids his age had what I called "Mother Deafness." They would hear what mom said, but not heed it. But grandparents seem to have a way to make an impression on youngsters.
"Once you tell a secret, it's no longer a secret," sounds like an ideal code for any kid. To me it's like a get-out-of-jail-free card for children who like to grab on to a reason not to tell the truth when confronted by a parent when something wrong was done and the parent is trying to get to the bottom of it. "Who was in the cookie jar?" Can't be answered since the child has been taught secrets are to be kept. Right or wrong. To me this would be a lesson against being honest or having honor.
just my thoughts on the subject.
on the other hand this also sounds like a pedo's modus operandi.it's how they manipulate kids,our special secret.+the secret Santa Visit.....who knows what went on in that household...