snow_walker
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We all live in denial to some extent, the A family just do it better, or worse, depending on how you look at it.
I think CA knew on the deepest level...that Caylee was dead before July 15th..KC refusing to bring her home, no sight or sound of the baby for a solid month..she must have wondered why she couldn't hear Caylee in the background.. not even once! in all the times that month that they had talked by phone. No baby clothes taken from the house, just KC's things..
all in all.. I am sure she 'knew' in some part of her mind. And I think her natural impulse.. default setting if you will.. is to be a decent ordinary grandma.. and that is the part of her that made the panicked 911 call.
It was only later that she pulled her blinkers on and set out to salvage what she could.. decided to try to save KC, since it was too late to do anything to save Caylee. She knows very well that KC was responsible, all of them know that much, they have known almost from the time KC left home. They just will not allow themselves to know it.
Before I condemn her too far though, I consider how many times we all choose to accept some version of events that we know very well is not true. How many times do we turn a blind eye to (for example) an alcholic family members problem? Or to a teenager doing drugs or to a wandering spouse? Even when we dropped the denial, we carried on on with the same game plan. The A's are guilty of the same nonsense we all are guilty of, only to a higher (and ridiculous) level.
Having done the same thing, although of course not over anything nearly as serious, I just can't do much stone throwing though.
I think CA knew on the deepest level...that Caylee was dead before July 15th..KC refusing to bring her home, no sight or sound of the baby for a solid month..she must have wondered why she couldn't hear Caylee in the background.. not even once! in all the times that month that they had talked by phone. No baby clothes taken from the house, just KC's things..
all in all.. I am sure she 'knew' in some part of her mind. And I think her natural impulse.. default setting if you will.. is to be a decent ordinary grandma.. and that is the part of her that made the panicked 911 call.
It was only later that she pulled her blinkers on and set out to salvage what she could.. decided to try to save KC, since it was too late to do anything to save Caylee. She knows very well that KC was responsible, all of them know that much, they have known almost from the time KC left home. They just will not allow themselves to know it.
Before I condemn her too far though, I consider how many times we all choose to accept some version of events that we know very well is not true. How many times do we turn a blind eye to (for example) an alcholic family members problem? Or to a teenager doing drugs or to a wandering spouse? Even when we dropped the denial, we carried on on with the same game plan. The A's are guilty of the same nonsense we all are guilty of, only to a higher (and ridiculous) level.
Having done the same thing, although of course not over anything nearly as serious, I just can't do much stone throwing though.