Found Deceased Ks - Lucas Hernandez, 5, Wichita, 17 Feb 2018 #27

[AlwaysHopeToHelp]

You know, I just wondered how exactly she plans to support herself long-term. Of course I'm hoping she's brought in before she gets too settled, but if does take approx. 2 months for everything to come in, who is feeding her and buying her deodorant and toothpaste? I can't see her cooped up with no life for too long.

Who will hire her? There may be some who would take a chance on her, but to what length? They won't want to risk losing business, and I'm sure it won't take long to wear out her welcome even if hidden in back office somewhere.

Will she couch-surf all day every day, using up all the hot water and eating all the food? Will she have to be told multiple times not to do drugs in the house or bring "dates" home?

She can't really ask for child support and would be lucky if she's not required to pay for MH and her boys-- do you think she'll reclaim her stepmom title over live-in girlfriend in order to fight for a form of spousal support? She did take care of her "baby boy" "every day" after all.

I would bet she's thinking more about how she can return to a lifestyle she became accustomed more than she's thinking about Lucas or the kind of trouble she's in--and no way she's thinking she did it to herself.

She will as well as JH have to pay child support to CPS for her child is how it normally works. Based off minimum wage.

 

[Busylady]

She will as well as JH have to pay child support to CPS for her child is how it normally works. Based off minimum wage.

Per court records order for child support was made for both JH and EG for baby M

 

[Busylady]

Well, Lucas is now being referred to as "Wichita's son" so if the family were to have a private service, the majority of the community might feel slighted or unappreciative of the support they have given. And the community has been for the most part supportive and respectful to the family. So they do want to share this time with everyone who wants to pay their respects to Lucas. It's helping their healing to know just how supported that they are. It's just a small group of people who are making the most trouble so to speak, but the family will close the service if things get much worse.

I understand what you are saying, but I hope they realize they don't owe the public anything. They deserve to grieve in private without eyes on them during the process.

 

[hopingicanhelp]

She will as well as JH have to pay child support to CPS for her child is how it normally works. Based off minimum wage.

Right...she got away with not paying it for her boys (or so it would appear) because she stated she couldn't work due to health issues. I'm hoping she's not evil enough to stab JH in the back to saddle him with all of MH's support, plus additional support for her boys, plus spousal...but who are we talking about?

I don't see her complying with child support -- it would have to be garnished. In order for that to happen, she would have to work. I don't see it.

I also don't see her tolerating living under someone else's roof or the process of asking for each and every thing she needs or wants. She could be watching her Ps & Qs for the moment, but it won't be long before she is too impatient to even play along. She will hook another romantic partner ("meat wallet") who will finance her...or she'll learn from the mistakes of someone close to her and give it a whirl herself.

 

[AlwaysHopeToHelp]

This is why I hate the new “like” button. The old “thanks” button was much more appropriate. My heart breaks for you and your family, Lonetraveler. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

I agree, like is just a little, inappropriate for some things but don’t want to make one think we didn’t see the post or don’t care.
Anyone know what Trophy points means?

 

[Deleted member 221026]

Right...she got away with not paying it for her boys (or so it would appear) because she stated she couldn't work due to health issues. I'm hoping she's not evil enough to stab JH in the back to saddle him with all of MH's support, plus additional support for her boys, plus spousal...but who are we talking about?

I don't see her complying with child support -- it would have to be garnished. In order for that to happen, she would have to work. I don't see it.

I also don't see her tolerating living under someone else's roof or the process of asking for each and every thing she needs or wants. She could be watching her Ps & Qs for the moment, but it won't be long before she is too impatient to even play along. She will hook another romantic partner ("meat wallet") who will finance her...or she'll learn from the mistakes of someone close to her and give it a whirl herself.

Oh, meat wallet, I’m a little slow sometimes on the upspring.

 

[Deleted member 221026]

I agree, like is just a little, inappropriate for some things but don’t want to make one think we didn’t see the post or don’t care.
Anyone know what Trophy points means?

I think, think it’s a combination of likes and posts figured into some equation. I’m really not sure. Other opinions?

 

[Jackeee]

I will never forget the Websleuths members who became involved in the search(es) for Lucas. You were absolutely amazing. Your accounts of what you encountered during this time made me so proud that people were able to do what I was not. You put yourselves out there, hoping to bring a little boy home. The maps, the planning, the boots on the ground and the compassion were powerful. Thank you.

 

[Mauig’ma]

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You know, I just wondered how exactly she plans to support herself long-term. Of course I'm hoping she's brought in before she gets too settled, but if does take approx. 2 months for everything to come in, who is feeding her and buying her deodorant and toothpaste? I can't see her cooped up with no life for too long.

Who will hire her? There may be some who would take a chance on her, but to what length? They won't want to risk losing business, and I'm sure it won't take long to wear out her welcome even if hidden in back office somewhere.

Will she couch-surf all day every day, using up all the hot water and eating all the food? Will she have to be told multiple times not to do drugs in the house or bring "dates" home?

She can't really ask for child support and would be lucky if she's not required to pay for MH and her boys-- do you think she'll reclaim her stepmom title over live-in girlfriend in order to fight for a form of spousal support? She did take care of her "baby boy" "every day" after all.

I would bet she's thinking more about how she can return to a lifestyle she’s become accustomed to. Way more than she's thinking about Lucas or what she put him through. She seems to be only worried about what kind of trouble she's in--and no way she's thinking she did it to herself.

That’s exactly what I think. And that’s why it’s vitally important she be found guilty. If they screw this up and she’s left to walk free. I feel she will move to a different town / state and find some other sucker to take her in. It won’t be long before another child is abused. She’s only thinking about herself. That’s pretty evident. Enough to know she will continue her pattern until someone finally stops her. Imo With what has happened so far, I can’t comprehend any other scenario other that her being found guilty of murder. And to spend the rest of her life locked away. Away from all children

 

[ScarlettLin]

I agree, like is just a little, inappropriate for some things but don’t want to make one think we didn’t see the post or don’t care.
Anyone know what Trophy points means?

Trophy points are like video game achievements. You get a trophy for so many points like 10 likes is one trophy, 30 likes is another, 10 posts is one trophy, and so on. They each have a neat little name too

 

[Tricia]

If you wish to offer condolences to lonetraveler on the loss of her great-granddaughter her thread is in the Jury Room. CLICK HERE
Lonetraveler I am so very sorry. Hopefully, the messages in the Jury Room will give you comfort in these coming difficult days.

Take Care,
Tricia

 

[Charliegizmo49]

Where there’s drugs there’s dependency to those drugs. She’s going to need some to mask her feelings through this and/or before withdrawal sets in. Anyone willing to take a chance finding drugs for her would be taking a chance to get charged themselves. And who would risk anything for her anyways? She’s going to do something drastic if she goes without the drugs for too long. Moo. Suicide would be my first bet. She has nothing to lose anymore. Not unless JH has promised her everything is going to be fine & he’s willing to help her. After all this he wouldn’t would he?

I hope, I hope. Because after everything, I hope it’s sinking in. This must be absolute hell on his family.

 

[Charliegizmo49]

I just want them to make sure they do not feel obligated and only do it if they choose to. They owe Wichita, nothing.

I agree. They as a group need to do what is best for them. They need not add to their stress and grief. Not now. It’s going to come when EG IS CHARGED. Leave them in peace for a time. EG has had a devastating effect on so many.

 

[gngr~snap]

I feel Marshburn is going to turn the tables on JH. No way is he that blind. Remember how he acts like a drinking buddy??? JH played right into his hands. JH is going to be blindsided soon. IMO.

I would be shocked!
I would also tell myself yet again, to trust my gut!
Moo

 

[AlwaysHopeToHelp]

I would be shocked!
I would also tell myself yet again, to trust my gut!
Moo

Oooh! I have been playing with the exact same thought in my own mind all day!!!

 

[Smarty Pants]

I don't think I've seen this asked, so apologies if this is duplicate question: Does EG draw disability? For her pain?
Again, apologies if this has been discussed already.

 

[ScarlettLin]

I don't think I've seen this asked, so apologies if this is duplicate question: Does EG draw disability? For her pain?
Again, apologies if this has been discussed already.

She said in custody/visitation court docs she couldn’t work because of health issues. I have not seen it said if she draws disability

 

[misgrn]

Re: Emily being on disability. I doubt it since in the court papers (shared in earlier threads) regarding child support for her two boys, it was stated she couldn't work and that Jonathon would pay some towards it if he had extra money after paying house bills, etc. If she was getting disability, child support would most likely be automatically deducted. I know some people on disability and their Child Support is garnished from their monthly checks. I assume it would be that way no matter what state a person lives in.

 

[Tricia]

If one person (let alone a majority) who helped with anything concerning Lucas feels "slighted" because the family does not invite them to a private service, then they did not volunteer for the right reasons. You don't volunteer to help a family living this nightmare so you can be recognized. So you can be invited to something.
None of this information about the possibility of a private service or the majority of the community feeling slighted if they are not invited has been in any of our approved media sources. Therefore, this must be more FB drama.
I hope to God no one is bothering the family with this nonsense. It is no one's business what type of service they will have for Lucas. IMO
Normally I wouldn't discuss this non-verified information, but I had to address the info before it took over the thread.
Please, everyone, stick to discussing Lucas, what happened to Lucas, who is responsible and why. Leave the drama and rumors to others.

Thank you,
Tricia

 

[Ari]

I just finished listening to the first podcast with Nancy Grace and David Marshburn. I’m so upset, crying, and can’t stop thinking about Lucas. I didn’t know this little boy but I care about him so much. My heart breaks for Lucas and his loving family.

Justice is coming for you sweet boy!