hopingicanhelp
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Sorry to back-to-back post, but site is letting me so I'm gonna...
Thinking on the school nurse delaying report until after Lucas went missing.
1. Did she report it to her admin but not directly to DCF? IIRC, they have to report to their superiors, but not necessarily directly to DCF
2. Did she, perhaps, fear that an immediate response by DCF could make it worse for Lucas? Sad thing is, mandated reporters I know personally have often commented that the fear of reporting is the possible retaliation the child could experience. Some have purposefully waited until a time they knew the child would be at school or in other care to make a report or urged DCF to act during school hours, separating child from the immediate shock and reaction from the parent.
I'm not trying to make excuses -- I'm just wondering if she was trying to follow a gut instinct first? Perhaps she thought it would be better to wait for Lucas to return to school when he would be "sheltered" and she could talk to EG face to face and make the determination at that point? The "consistent with a fall" note may have dissuaded her or encouraged her to do a little digging first. Of course, between his illnesses she may not have had the chance -- we don't know that the nurse was involved in the instances when EG picked up Lucas; could have been a teacher or secretary calling, as nurses are often part-time in this school district.
JMO
Thinking on the school nurse delaying report until after Lucas went missing.
1. Did she report it to her admin but not directly to DCF? IIRC, they have to report to their superiors, but not necessarily directly to DCF
2. Did she, perhaps, fear that an immediate response by DCF could make it worse for Lucas? Sad thing is, mandated reporters I know personally have often commented that the fear of reporting is the possible retaliation the child could experience. Some have purposefully waited until a time they knew the child would be at school or in other care to make a report or urged DCF to act during school hours, separating child from the immediate shock and reaction from the parent.
I'm not trying to make excuses -- I'm just wondering if she was trying to follow a gut instinct first? Perhaps she thought it would be better to wait for Lucas to return to school when he would be "sheltered" and she could talk to EG face to face and make the determination at that point? The "consistent with a fall" note may have dissuaded her or encouraged her to do a little digging first. Of course, between his illnesses she may not have had the chance -- we don't know that the nurse was involved in the instances when EG picked up Lucas; could have been a teacher or secretary calling, as nurses are often part-time in this school district.
JMO