Because we all read it.
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You got me there, lol!
Because we all read it.
When you adopt a child he/she becomes YOUR child. And you pay child support if you don't have primary custody after a divorce. That's life. J IS his child. I hope he and J are still close. That photo with him and little J and Terri is so adorable. How the little one is leaning towards him/daddy.
He paid for his wife's college? No, say it ain't so!
H hasnt seen J in years apparently because he asked Terri if he could reduce his payments as they were crippling him. He never got to see J again.
I've not had any experience with a child with ADD. Are they able to control their behavior to avoid punishment?
So collecting an unemployment check for doing squat is contributing? I guess collecting child support from the sucker she got to legally adopt her son is a major contribution as well, right? omg. really?
Running a household can be kind of hard. Depending on how well you run it. But it's much easier than having to answer to someone who is in complete control of your livelihood. If KH doesn't do a good job, he gets fired and everyone's life tanks. If TH doesn't do a good job, worst case scenario (felonies aside) she gets a divorce, half of Kh's , alimony, custody and child support....for collecting unemployment and doing some laundry and shopping when she wasn't busy hitting the gym for hours each day and drinking herself to sleep. jmoo
How is it that I manage to have the job I have without a woman to run life without me...????
Remember the Mustang was a gift for 'Mother's Day' - people can be bought by many different gestures. moo
This bread winner stuff is making me crazy!!! Kaine wouldn't have the job he has without a woman to run life without him! from the eek squad!
You know - I have a hard time with anyone who diminishes the role of a stay-at-home mom who is there 24/7 so hubby can move up the ladder and expand himself.
It's obvious Terri took great care of the children, everyone says she loves Kyron and her son, and her baby girl. I am stunned that people castigate the SAHM! from the eek squad!
I don't know about that color code thing. Yellow = inattentive; sounds like by they time they get down the line, things would have progressed pretty far. Remember Kaine talking about making Kyron listen in school? It was in one of the interviews with Desiree, possibly the first one. If they were working with him regarding this matter, I can see her wanting to know if he was being inattentive. Could it be that was part of the plan to get him to mind in school? And I noticed she wanted Kaine to discipline his own son.
If that's the worst example he can come up with in how she treated Kyron ...
Also interesting is that he brought Kyron over to her apartment at a young infant. He was born in September, and she moved in with Kaine in December, so he would have been quite young at the time. So it appears she HAS been in his life from the beginning, eh?
Never mind the best interest of the child:waitasec:
I have a huge problem with this.
I wonder if Desiree paid any child support? I am certain that if Terri could keep her own son from seeing his adopted father over it, then she would be extremely ticked over Kyron not receiving anything from his mother. (If that is the case)
If Kaine argued money with Terri, no child support coming in for Kyron would fuel the situation.
After reading this, I would really like to know what happened in that home during the week prior to Kyron going missing. Was there an disagreement with money? How was Kyron's behavior in school?
LOL I agree. I was a single mom, worked full time and did everything else. I don't really think telling your husband how you're spending money is asking for too much.
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*The daily reports from the teacher are EXACTLY what I would do if my child was having discipline issues at school serious enough for the teacher to have to call me. How do you "ground" a 7yo? No TV? What horror! Going to bed early? Highly recommended as a discipline method (does anyone read John Rosemond anymore?) In 2nd grade my kids all came home with a daily check of their behavior so we could be on top of any problem. Not a big deal at all, especially with their small class sizes. Mostly it was just a star, and a few kids who had gotten a check in a specific area. Maybe a few times a year a note about a persistent issue comes home. If a teacher has to call the parents about behavior in 2nd grade, it's a problem that needs to be addressed.
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But it says:
He said when Kyron brought home anything but a green card she wanted Kaine to discipline him by grounding him to his room for the evening, eliminating play time or not letting him watch movies.
"There was no room for error," Kaine said.
That is extremely problematic, in my opinion.
Hmmm...
*And the comment about the boat...what money was he planning on using for that? Was it part of the settlement from Chubby's or the car accident that Terri had said she'd save for Jxxxx to use for college? That would rub me the wrong way too. A BOAT?? Please. Another thing where we are not getting the whole story. If this is the worst stuff ex-in-laws can come up with, then I hope LE has other options. They sounded so ungrateful when it seemed like Terri was trying to do nice things. Makes me love my wonderful MIL even more!
I agree that it would be great if there was more of a focus on Kyron, but without any input from LE, what are they supposed to write? It's either this soap opera crap (which I read every word:blushing or let the story fade, which would be even more sad.
...I think what he meant by "my money" was HIS income.... that she wasn't discussing how they should be spending "our money"... HIS income. I think he was differentiating between HER income and the family income (HIS income.) She has been getting child support since Kaine met her. SHE was on unemployment for TWO YEARS. (How do you do that?) She had her OWN income as well.
Didn't KH in one interview, when speaking of why TH's son was sent to live with his Dad say TH was the laid back parent and he (KH) was more "structured" or something along those lines?