Okay then. Please pass me the sugar - I just listened to an extra large bottle of bitter pills.
This interview makes me want to scream. :scream:
Anyone else?
In today's interview, per Kaine, Terri begins acting strangely in 2005 including her alcohol problems and her arrest for DUI. And that year she was losing 40? lbs in 4 months for the "show".Was Kaine rooting for her in her passion, her discipline and her acheivement? :thumb: Oh, too bad, reporter forgot to ask. But Kaine offers that was when she probably started acting weird. :doh:
The years pass, Kaine has no idea what Terri does all day or where she goes, had no reason to know until now. :doh: She does her thing and he works. :treadmill: He doesn't really know her friends, including Dede, who was maybe an every 6 month type visitor and participated in giving Terri the 40th birthday party. :birthday:
He guesses now that Terri has been drinking herself to sleep for some time. :martini: . She might still be on some kind of PPD medication too :waitasec:- at least she was - but only her doctor knows for sure. :doh: Other people say the liquor goes missing when Terri visits.
BabyK is now a changed child. :baby: What a relief for the baby to have no mommy now. :sunshine: Desiree agrees "ya ya, she's (baby) totally changed." :dance:
Kaine mediated the difficulties between Terri & her older son, disciplined and provided rules & structure for Terri's 16 year old son. :whipper: Desiree understands, you see, Terri had a different parenting style than Kane. (Whoa - there's a big hint.) Terri's older son told him he will come live with Kaine whenever in the future he may need to.
Oh, and Kaine can see how strange Terri's behavior was now, in hindsight. :doh:
Reporter: Shame on you. Way to drop the ball buddy. Such lost opportunities. :trout: No questions about how Terri & Kyron got along? A few questions how Terri & her own son got along? None about Terri & baby? Kaine & Desiree practially THREW him the question - about the baby doing better - but no follow up. No- What do you see different in the baby? How is she doing better than before? Huh? Why? :slap:
Okay maybe once again, the questions were submitted in advance approved & rehearsed?
JMHO, Terri taking care of 3 kids, throwing weird signals out all over the place - including signs of depression. And these other two parents not really caring much about how the caregiver is doing. Both are busy working. One is busy holding permanent grudges and trying not to show it. :innocent: Were neither interested in Terri as a person playing the highly critical care giving role within the family unit?
I am sure Kaine and Desiree have no idea how shallow their ongoing selective and regularly changing storytelling makes them come across. And I realize they both very much believe they have reason to feel angry towards Terri. Desiree's has built up 8 years of bitterness - I can't imagine how she feels now. But frankly, this interview about how Terri deteriorated before their very eyes and so they are sure she's done this to Kyron - it's all her fault ... comes across as almost vicious - a bit beyond the pale...and makes Kaine & Terri both look self-serving and wholly insensitive toward the person they entrusted for 7 years to help raise their child. I'm sorry. That's not a marriage. That's a live-in nanny service.
Oh, and nothing like marriage counseling by National Media proxy, and (how convenient) without the problem spouse participating. What a great idea. :Jumpie: Why didn't I think of that?
Moo Moo Moo (no more smilies allowed).
I'm tellin' ya, ah needs some sugar!!
Brilliant, just brilliant. At this point, I think many of us need the sugar 18 wheeler just to get re-balanced from all the bitter bitter stuff we're supposed to swallow. Was no one paying any attention to anything at all going on? As far as I can tell, TH did the work, did the toting and fetching, did stuff with the kids, took the pictures, put 'em on FB, emailed DY to keep her in the loop, but, apparently, no one noticed that she had problems, was depressed, or was drinking.
I guess as long as you're comfy and happy with services provided, whether or not the service provider is really OK or not is well, so what.
Poor Kyron. Poor all the kids involved in this mess. And, as an aside, if I hear KH mouth one more bit of psychobabble speak about "parenting" or whatever he's carrying on about in babblespeak, I'll start screaming.
