I think Cluciano helped me nail down why the serial killer talk isn't my favorite type of discussion to have. I am not saying we shouldn't talk about it or that it 100% isn't true, but the way it is done seems so reductive to me. By that I mean that beyond superficial physical similarities very few of these cases are similar at all. They have way, way more differences than similarities. There is just no way Holly was taken by a random non-local only in town for a day or two and if someone knew all the details of her case there is no way they would make that claim. Lauren was so drunk/wasted that she was barely conscious and last seen being carried by a POI (like, literally she couldn't walk) and conveniently all of them had lawyers immediately and won't cooperate. There are other contexts for the other ladies and all of them had starkly different disappearances ranging throughout all times of the day, different locations, different sobriety levels, big city VS BFE, POIs with motivations to disappear them who were conveniently the last people to see them, etc. I guess listing them all together and oohing and awing over the fact that they sort of kind of have some similar physical features just seems to take away from how unique every case is and most of these women have extremely likely, reasonable POIs other than random serial killer.
However, I realize that I don't think anyone is meaning to do this and that everyone does mean well and that obviously I am in no position to judge what is beneficial talk or not and (sorry lots of qualifiers!) I cannot even say for certain that none of them are connected. It is a personal issue with me that I perhaps need to come to terms with, ha ha. I will encourage (invite?) everyone interested in the serial killer talk to read about each individual case. We can always use more eyes in the Holly, Lauren, and Katelyn threads
I myself will try to take a look at the names that are less familiar to me.
A brief scan of most of the names makes me think Brittanee and Mickey are the only two truly random disappearances. They are the only two that I absolutely cannot find any other context-they are just GONE for no reason