Her looks went from one extreme to the other, but if she acted nutty or evil then why did Kaine allow her to take full responsibility of his child. IMO, Kyron should have been with his mother once she recovered.
I don't think she acted nutty or evil around Kaine, at least. I shudder to think, if she is guilty, how she treated Kyron when they were alone together.
Having kids, and having been around a ton of middle class mothers with their children over the last 16 years, my kids and I have both noticed how some mothers act differently when they are with their in public. We only hope these mothers revert to treating their kids like people at home.
I will try to explain it, using a visit to the grocery store as an example (I could use a visit to our home, too -- this is easier).
I would take my kids to the store. I spoke to them in a normal tone of voice, just like they were anyone else. I'd see other mothers there, and they were talking to their kids in a syrupy sweet tone of voice, and more high pitched than is natural. They would say, "Sweetheart, won't you behave for Mommy? Let's go over here and look at cereal. We can't buy Pop Tarts today. They aren't good for your little tum-tum."
Me, same situation, same age kids: "Octavia, Pop Tarts are expensive and are not nutritious, and I am not going to buy them. Cheerios are okay. You like them. Come on, you can pick out which kind you want."
I don't know if I've communicated this well. But the syrupy, high pitched voice and words like tum-tum got to me. I used to think I was a bad mother because I was not talking to my kids like that and so many were.
I mentioned this to my kids when they were old enough to understand what I was talking about. They jumped right on the bandwagon with tons of examples of how adults (mostly moms and teachers) speak to children. They are glad I treated them like people, and that is exactly how they put it.
They are teenagers now, and they still notice this difference -- IOW, it's not just with preschoolers. It upsets my kids when adults do not treat them like people and one or more of them has an example of this every single day.
The upshot is that there are plenty of mothers who put on an act around their children and in public. I don't know how, or if, they sustain that at home, but I doubt it.