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So did anyone ask during the Q & A if Kim was a vegetarian when she was young? Am I the only one who wants to know how she became a vegetarian who liked Cuban food growing up in an apparently Irish Catholic family?
Honestly I'm in Illinois and I only came across this case a week ago. It happened to come up on my facebook newsfeed. If it hadn't I'm not sure I would have known about it either.
So did anyone ask during the Q & A if Kim was a vegetarian when she was young? Am I the only one who wants to know how she became a vegetarian who liked Cuban food growing up in an apparently Irish Catholic family?
So, does anyone think her father or stepfather (whichever one was the stockbroker) could have written the notes page?
Stockbrokers need to know time zones right? Maybe all these people were potential clients he was researching?
At least two of us, Gardener1850, at least two of us!
The transition from Catholic to Baptist, too. BTW were the assorted Baptist churches LEK attended Southern Baptist or other Baptist churches? I expect that there are more American Baptist churches around Philadelphia and a wide variety in East Texas.
One of the three pastors mentioned in LEK's obit was from a Disciples of Christ church (now merged with the Congregational Church.)
We're still all over the map, literally & figuratively!
I am not sure those preferences mean much if anything.
I grew up in a traditional Southern, meat-eating, Episcopalian, Scot-Irish/Anglo family.
I was a vegetarian for many years. I also adore Cuban/Carribean cuisine and Indian and Thai foods. Because they are delicious. I never lived in Cuba, India or Thailand. I like the food nonetheless.
I also no longer attend church but when I last did, it was as a Southern Baptist who was baptized by immersion as an adult.
I am not living a secret life. I have no secrets. I am just a woman who made various choices during my life.
Yes, Lori/Kim is not typical in that she led a secret life and also killed herself. But I think we may be reading way too much into every little thing. Just because a person grows up in an Irish Catholic family does not make it weird that she liked Cuban food....
JMO
I am not sure those preferences mean much if anything.
I grew up in a traditional Southern, meat-eating, Episcopalian, Scot-Irish/Anglo family.
I was a vegetarian for many years. I also adore Cuban/Carribean cuisine and Indian and Thai foods. Because they are delicious. I never lived in Cuba, India or Thailand. I like the food nonetheless.
I also no longer attend church but when I last did, it was as a Southern Baptist who was baptized by immersion as an adult.
I am not living a secret life. I have no secrets. I am just a woman who made various choices during my life.
Yes, Lori/Kim is not typical in that she led a secret life and also killed herself. But I think we may be reading way too much into every little thing. Just because a person grows up in an Irish Catholic family does not make it weird that she liked Cuban food....
JMO
1) I'm confused about comments I've read in a few different places implying that what we learned was Lori's actual identity is anticlimactic. I don't understand that. In fact to me, this revelation is a more perplexing and fascinating scenario than what I had narrowed down in my mind as plausible theories. She's more interesting to me now than she was a week ago. Am I the only one?
2) How in the world, I mean how in the WORLD, was Lori not recognized by someone who knew her as Kimberly? I understand the low profile Lori kept when she was alive and while it's a little surprising, I can see how she managed to keep her new life separate from her old life. However, the last few years with all of the publicity her case has had, it's unimaginable to me that not one person from her Kimberly life saw the Lori Ruff story and thought, "She kind of looks like that Kim girl" enough to check it out. I know this hasn't been Brangelina divorce level coverage but all it would take would be one superficial glance at a news story to catch the attention of just one person who spent time with her when she was Kimberly. I just can't believe that in all these years, that never happened, especially in the beginning when her story was widely published.
The comments on the FB interview has the reporter saying that a few people sent in old yearbook photos of Kim and that the ST had them on an article today. I can't find this. Has anyone seen these photos or the article Maureen is referring to?
What do you all think??
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Posting the 3rd grade photos that were found of her and posted on FB.
I understand, and I'm not saying that it's weird that there are tons of people unfamiliar with the case. I'm saying that it's weird that in these years this has been going on, out of all of the people who came in contact with her through her young life as Kimberly, not one caught a glance at the story and the pictures and made a connection.
For instance, let's say you were to select some random adult American's Facebook who has, let's say 300 friends - I'll bet at least one person on that list would recognize the story and would have at some point heard about it and seen a picture of Lori.
This.Now that this news has finally sunk in, I have a couple of questions/thoughts and I think this group has invested the most in this case, so I'd be interested if you all have input. These have been talked about a little, but I'd love to hear your thoughts.
1) I'm confused about comments I've read in a few different places implying that what we learned was Lori's actual identity is anticlimactic. I don't understand that. In fact to me, this revelation is a more perplexing and fascinating scenario than what I had narrowed down in my mind as plausible theories. She's more interesting to me now than she was a week ago. Am I the only one?
2) How in the world, I mean how in the WORLD, was Lori not recognized by someone who knew her as Kimberly? I understand the low profile Lori kept when she was alive and while it's a little surprising, I can see how she managed to keep her new life separate from her old life. However, the last few years with all of the publicity her case has had, it's unimaginable to me that not one person from her Kimberly life saw the Lori Ruff story and thought, "She kind of looks like that Kim girl" enough to check it out. I know this hasn't been Brangelina divorce level coverage but all it would take would be one superficial glance at a news story to catch the attention of just one person who spent time with her when she was Kimberly. I just can't believe that in all these years, that never happened, especially in the beginning when her story was widely published.
So having said that, it puzzles me greatly in sort of a "what are the odds?" way but I guess I accept the moderately suitable explanation that she seemed to be an introvert who probably didn't collect friends by the dozens. BUT I can't even come close to comprehending how this happened with her family. In fact, I don't believe it. I honestly believe it's next to impossible that not one family member had figured it out. I know people keep asking why the family didn't search for her and the answer that is given, correctly, is that she left voluntarily so she wasn't "missing". However, I can't accept that not one sibling, cousin, aunt, or uncle hasn't sat at the computer in the last few years, thought about her, gotten curious and started googling. Of course googling her as Kimberly wouldn't bring anything but for anyone whose family member left a few decades ago and hasn't been heard of since, stories like Lori's are going to at least merit a glance. Even with a small amount of curiosity and the most basic search skills, Lori's face would likely appear. She didn't undergo any huge changes in her appearance that would make her unrecognizable. And it was SO weird to me that her mother didn't react until a more recent photo of her was shown.
I am praying for both families and hope the adjustment is as smooth as possible. Lori's story remains a mystery even now.
For instance, let's say you were to select some random adult American's Facebook who has, let's say 300 friends - I'll bet at least one person on that list would recognize the story and would have at some point heard about it and seen a picture of Lori.
HI Harriet !!:seeya:
Oh...there you are...yes~~now I remember it was you Harriet~~~you were right at least about the Irish part...LOL Great job!!
I saw several school pictures today here, but I didn't know that there was another article.The comments on the FB interview has the reporter saying that a few people sent in old yearbook photos of Kim and that the ST had them on an article today. I can't find this. Has anyone seen these photos or the article Maureen is referring to?
I figure that since LEK/KML needed to let go of so many things, she would hold very tightly to others.
Seems she let go of Catholicism. You know, with experience i the SBC, that adults join be baptism or be letter. IF LEK joined an SBC church, did she make a profession of faith & receive baptism by immersion, or perhaps provide a letter of transfer from a church next door to the Mandarin Oriental? Difficult to explain a baptismal certificate from the Diocese of Philadelphia, I think.
(Somewhat OT: Concerns me that you may have been baptized twice.)