Always, it's about themselves acting on THEIR own inner rage brought about by 'her'. They act it out, the children there or in bed are never first and foremost. One should always know that, I had to find that out and survived by my wits and shouting (my little daughter) is upstairs! He lowered the chair that was lifted to kill me, insane look on his face and left. I was immediately able to get an order to keep him out of the house and proceeded for a long time to keep myself safe for my child. I had a great woman lawyer who guided me and 'marriage therapist' in a progressive city. IT's always using your wits and Ana may have been trying to do that but he saw through it. Simmering in his mind below the surface for a while. Who would of believed it of mine either. It was because I wanted to 'separate' and talked about it.. Never do that, just plan best you can. Horrible.
