CrazytownUSA
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Great post. I agree.
RB did love Bella, she just sucked at being a parent. I also believe RB is most likely directly responsible for Bella's death.
RB's need to "control" Bella strikes me as far more likely to have caused the death than MM suddenly going crazy and violently killing the girl. IMO RB was the dominant one in her relationship with MM, if Bella got locked into a closet it was because RB saw that as "appropriate" and MM kept his mouth shut.
I agree. I had a neighbor who was a huge oxy addict, mixed with a huge methadone problem (all managed by her doctors). She was a stay at home mom collecting her checks for 4 kids. I checked on the kids and her every single day. Her father also lived there and watched over them, and I would keep the kids from time to time when it looked like she was really high and I feared she would fall asleep with a lit cigarette or something. She loved her kids, she did so much for them, but she had problems. Had I had even a glimpse of what I thought was abusive or neglectful behavior I wouldn't have hesitated to call. Each of the kids that were old enough to talk knew they could come to me for any reason at all. Thankfully she managed to get off all the pills and everyone is happy and healthy, but I didn't sleep alot those days. When you hear stories like this, you just never know. Drugs change people. They make an otherwise sane person do things they would never have done before drugs were introduced... it's very sad to watch so many lives destroyed (mostly children) by the drug problem we have in this country... very very sad.