Sonata
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Think about it. You're a 20 year old woman living in Perugia for a few weeks and you arrive home to find your front door wide open. You think it's wrong, but convince yourself it's okay. You go into your house, knowing that the front door was wide open, convincing yourself that it's normal, looking around to see who is home - who left the door open. You think maybe someone is taking out the garbage so you wait to see. No one else is there. Do you then decide your're not sure what happened, so you'll have a shower alone at home (even though you just had one 10 hours ago) when the front door was wide open and no one was home ... but that wasn't how you left it ... and you were the last person that was supposed to be there?
Is that "ugly coping" too, or is that just Amelie being Amanda?
Amelie?
No I don't think that's ugly coping at all. When I think back to my year abroad to be quite frank with you none of that seems particularly odd. In a foreign country, when living with other girls and when only 20 years old and a student, one tends to be fairly lax with things as the idea of responsibility is still a bit scary, particularly if you don't speak the native language fluently.
Also, if you spend the evening having sex, then 10 hours ago or not, you want another shower.